Good Morning FL,
Anticipatory anxiety is a huge issue for me and I have to work really hard to keep it under control. As the term indicates you may begin to anticipate or worry about possible future events which in turn produce symptoms of anxiety.
While everyone experiences anticipatory anxiety to some degree, those of us with anxiety disorders find it very difficult to break the cycle of constant worry or obsessional thinking. It is as if you have gotten on a treadmill of thoughts, worries, and concerns and it seems almost impossible to convince yourself of reasons to stop.
As soon as you realize you have gotten on the "worry-go-round" take the following steps:
Tell yourself that it is just anxiety, that you control your thoughts and that your thoughts do not control you.
Remind yourself that worrying excessively about things beyond your control does not "solve" anything.
If you must "anticipate" then "anticipate" the best outcome instead of the worst. Let's say you fear having another anxiety attack. Rather than assume that you are losing your mind, tell yourself that thoughts can't hurt you, that you are in control and you will be fine should another attack occur.
As it takes time to form bad thinking habits it also takes time to unlearn them and form new ones. So, be patient as you make changes in your way of thinking. Don't get discouraged. I am a work in progress and have had anxiety and depression for 29 years. 95 % of the time I do well.
Gentle Hugs,
Kitt