netbell,
I am so sorry! I somehow missed your repsopnse to me in your first post regarding this. While doing a search on this subject just now, I came across it.:( I don't know how I missed it...but it may have been during our computer problems recently.
So...here are the sites that I recommend...sorry they are late!
http://www.momswhothink.com/menopause-relief/menoapuse-natural-relief-anxiety.html
http://www.34-menopause-symptoms.com/anxiety-treatments.htm
http://www.webmd.com/vitamins-supplements/condition-1377-Menopausal+anxiety.aspx?diseaseid=1377&diseasename=Menopausal+anxiety&source=0
p.s. I love that in the last link...wine is listed under suppliments!!! Hallelujah!