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Posted 8/4/2013 2:45 AM (GMT 0)
Why can I not get over loseing my grandmothers cloth,Iam pissed how could I be so stupid to take out my deep pocket I mean Ive had it for months&I take it out one time&I lose it. Iam just mad I need to get over this I must be crazy are something ppl lose stuff everyday,the singer beyonce says she never has her ring on her husband gave her. If she do it's not worth much because she know she will lose it I been loseing stuff with value all my life,my uncle gave me a 14 carat ring&I beg my mom to let me wear it to school. She gave in& I got to wear it in elem and lost it in the sand box,I cried my eyes out I lost something else with value and was mad I couldn't find it. I have lost a whole storage of my stuff because my mother didn't have money to keep paying for our stuff,Ive been stole from stuff worth much money& I lost a bracelet my first love gave to me. I also lost my first flower I caught at my cousin wedding,heck I hate loseing money when Iam trying to win money&I just hate loseing. Can't win for nothing Iam a out of order person&can be junky at times Iam playing a game,the world is playing candy crush it has many levels up to 300 of them and Iam on level 111 &wanted to quit at 100 but kept going because I can't lose,I would hold on to no good ex because I didn't want to lose that joy of being close with another. I don't like loseing&when I do it makes me mad I know we win some&we lose some,but me I rather when them all thats just how my mind works I rather give my best winning then loseing and its not that Iam a weak loser I know everyone can't be number one I just rather know I gave my all¬hing less.
Posted 8/4/2013 5:45 AM (GMT 0)
You can give your all and nothing less and still sometimes lose or fail. 'Tis the balance of the earth.

I hate to lose things of value, too, and do it quite a bit. I lost my class ring after only a couple of weeks, and my mother worked her ^#$%^ off to buy that thing. I still carry a lot of guilt and regret over that.

The thing that is hard to accept, but I think we need to accept, is that we will lose some things. Material things come and go. It's especially hard if they're sentimental to us. BUT we can still hold onto the sentiment without the object.

Hope you can let yourself off the hook soon!

Love you, friend.
Posted 8/4/2013 5:52 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks friend love you for this advice I did need.
Posted 8/4/2013 2:37 PM (GMT 0)
I like to imagine postive outcomes to items that have been lost or stolen...

Maybe someone found your grandmother's prayer cloth, recognized it for what it was, and it using it to restore their faith in prayer...

...or maybe it was found and incorporated into a quilt, that will keep a young one or an elder warm for many years to come...

A family at our church recently had their car broken into. They lost their cell phones and i-pods/pads...all things already replaced through insurance money.

However, the heartbreaker for the wife/mom was that her bible study notes...years worth of work and notes that were in a journal were also picked up by the thieves...surely to just be tossed away as trash when her bag was searced for valuables.

...but maybe...just maybe, one of the thieves reads her words and those scriptures and comes to an understanding!?

You don't know the outcome and plans for the things that we lose in this life...but it could be for the good of others if it is in His will.

Try to let go of this anger and give it to the one who knows all things. I pray for comfort for you in this situation.

S.C.
Posted 8/4/2013 7:52 PM (GMT 0)
Iam better&you all are right&thank you again.
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