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Posted 9/10/2013 10:55 PM (GMT 0)
My heart is saying I'm not ready
Posted 9/10/2013 11:00 PM (GMT 0)
Ultimately all of us will eventually go our own way, but I doubt that many will ever forget the people
who talked to them, Prayed for them, worried about them, I know I won't. "I know one other thing,
We will Love You as long as We Live, and maybe a little More"!

I Love You Baby Girl, Peace!

Larry ***
Posted 9/11/2013 12:31 AM (GMT 0)
Hi Kortnie,

I respect your decision and please know that we'll always be here for you no matter what decision you make.

I know you're going through a tough time, but I hope you will keep us updated on how you're doing.

UA
Posted 9/11/2013 12:52 AM (GMT 0)
Thanks Larry and UA

Everyone had me second guessing myself :'( I don't want a kid right now even my therapist said right now isn't a good time to have a child I really have noone to support me through my decision my family is going to kill me if I have an abortion but I just feel right now that if I'm going to have to go through this pregnancy I might just hurt myself... I already have the appointment set up for the 24th and I have the money... I just really wish I would miscarrie so both me and my family would be satisfied because they atleast said if I have a miscarriage its one thing.... BY THE WAY MY BOYFRIEND IS NEVER GETTING IT AGAIN!! LOL I just want this all to be over with I'd rather just spoil my nephew that was born last night until I'm ready to have a child...,I just feel I have no one to talk to :'(
Posted 9/11/2013 12:57 AM (GMT 0)
It's not true that you have no one to support you. We're here for you no matter your decision.
Your therapist can also help you through this. You should continue talking to her so she can give you the support you need as well to cope with this.

Hope you appointment goes well on the 24th. Take it easy until the app date.

*Hugs*

UA
Posted 9/11/2013 1:10 AM (GMT 0)
Thank you UA

I figured this would be the best time to get one being I'm already in therapy I'm going to go to the pregnancy resource center tomorrow to see if they can also tell me how far along I am I'm hoping to get a sooner appointment to get this done because all its doing its making me an emotional reck
Posted 9/11/2013 3:21 AM (GMT 0)
Dear Kortnie,

I love you and will be here for you, no matter what.

I have been the girl huddled in tears as those excruciatingly long seven minutes ticked by until I could check the results on my pregnancy test. Mine was negative. Then, I cried tears of relief.

I wondered, "How can I try to take care of myself enough for a baby to develop, when I can't take care of myself?" It was during one of my worse depressive episodes as an early twenty-something.

I can't imagine what you're going through, but I can sympathize at least a little.

I didn't mean to further confuse you, if I did with my earlier post. I just wanted to encourage you to weigh your decision carefully. It sounds as though you have and your decision is made.

That decision doesn't belong to anyone here - it belongs to you.

What we're here for is to support you through anxiety and the challenges you face. This is obviously a situation of much anxiety for you - and here I'll be to support you.

If I were there, I would hold you and let you cry. Then, I'd make you some tea or get you a could soda and try to help you calm back down.

I'm not there, so all I can offer you is words, love and prayers. But, you DO have those. Always.

Much love and many hugs,

Joy
Posted 9/11/2013 3:24 AM (GMT 0)
Your one of my baby's, I just want you well, I will keep Praying for You! Peace

Larry ***
Posted 9/11/2013 2:53 PM (GMT 0)
Thank yous
Posted 9/12/2013 3:20 AM (GMT 0)
Just checking in on ya - you doing okay today?
Posted 9/12/2013 4:07 AM (GMT 0)
Yea thank you BeRock I go tomorrow for a ultra sound to find out how far asking I am
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