Face to Face With Change

I have been going down the list of things to change&heal from&one thing at the top of the list,is relationship with mother because as I said before she has done&said many selfish things that have cause me to step back. And I find myself getn so angry with her at times,she is bossy which I can't stand at all and Iam the type that stand by respect is respect&it go both ways. And then I have to keep in mind what God says honor thy mother&father inspite of&yes I get that&I do my best to let God take care of most things that she do,and I can see why with truth some daughters move away from their mother&don't speak to them. But Iam not that type Iam just venting right now because Iam no longer holding anything in,to have it stress me out she is a big part of my anxiety at times&I just pray God gives me the strength and wisdom to learn how to deal with her better,Iam not the only one nervs she gets on I just go through more of it living with her&the older she gets she just let anything come out her mouth rudely&think its ok.
And it's never ok to be rude&just don't hear what anybody else say,are want to hear what anbody else say but her things don't work that way because what is right is right&whats wrong is just wrong.

Soul,

You are thinking about this in a very mature and graceful manner.

You can stick by what you believe is right, and also show respect to your mother...respect doesn't mean that you agree with the way that someone behaves...you often can't change that...but you are being a good daughter by being using your wisdom and forgiveness when dealing with her.

Keep up the good work!

S.C.