Posted 7/29/2014 5:25 PM (GMT 0)
so my stress level is up there and not sure what to do. my older son (turns 21 on friday) wants me to come get him and his gf an hour from here where he lives with his grandmother because his car he just bought broke down 2 weeks after he bought it and the part still hasn't come in. he has been completely disrespectful lately though and yesterday even because he was mad at his dad and grandparents for keeping him from his gf because they were arguing. i'm not sure what to do. he's being nice now. he walked 10 miles to her house yesterday. mind you, he's an army boy and does this stuff often but still. he is determined that's for sure when he wants something.
i may coddle him sometimes, but i sure let him know that i won't tolerate disrespect. just not sure i want him and his 17 yr old gf at my house sleeping in the same bed. i have mixed feelings on that. her mother has let my son live with her which i find odd.
my son needs to grow up that's for sure. i also miss him cause i don't get to see him very often. and his birthday is friday. i wish i knew what to do for an angry boy. he is still mad at his father for not being around when he was younger. he was an alcoholic but has since become sober in the last few years.