Hi AC and welcome!
I am sorry you are currently going through so much! Yes, all of these things...health, financial, parental responsibility all add up to stress...
...and while
concern is good and necessary,
anxiety that makes us feel miserable is not!
You have some extra challenges with your diabetic status to consider of course...so I do have some questions...
How are your BGL's and your most recent AC1? Are you tending to be low or high?
If you are low due to lack of eating (and I am assuming you are insulin dependant) and using your 24 hr Lantus/other Rx...have you talked with your doctor about a solution? Perhaps you can tolerate Glucerna shakes better than solid foods for now? (until you can get your anxiety better managed)
The numbness/tingling in the feet is also something to talk to your doctor about...to rule out neuropathy...
...but tingling elsewhere, especially in the face, is pretty typical of anxiety/panic...and can be relieved with breathing exercises pretty well.:)
We have a huge Resource section here on our main page, 1st post. Inside you will find a lot of great self-help material and information. Check it out, and if you have any questions, or need me to post anything more specific for your needs, please let me know and I will assist you!
Keep posting for support!
Scaredy Cat