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Posted 10/28/2014 1:39 AM (GMT 0)
Well, almost every month my cycles are very regular between 27-28 days. For two months I am having 24-25 days short cycle. But the amount and length is still the same.
I am 39 and my mom had menopause at the age of 41 (or 42 not sure), and her mom again around that age.

Does that mean that it's my turn now?
Or if the cycle is slightly getting shorter, should I be worried about a serious issue?

I may call for an appointment, so they can check my hormone levels I guess...

Post Edited (Rrakkma) : 10/28/2014 7:05:09 AM (GMT-6)

Posted 10/28/2014 1:55 AM (GMT 0)
I used to be every 28 days and now I'm every 25 days. Both are normal amounts of time and doctors will tell you it's normal. The thing with hormone testing is it changes day to day!

I've considered it but since it's not an exact test, the doctor said they wouldn't test me unless I was having issues which I'm not. Plus hormones and creams they give you if something was off, have their own risks like blood clots, cancer etc. sad

My non medical expertise says you are just fine and welcome to nearing the 40's blush

Sending love!
Lisa
Posted 10/28/2014 2:53 AM (GMT 0)
Rr.,

At our age (late 30's to mid 40's) it is pretty normal for cycles to start to change.

It is inconvenient, but not something to worry about.:)

I agree...the test ususally can't tell you much as far as any definitive answers, but your doctor may be willing to give you one, if you want it.

No worries...mine are all over the calendar these days. I have learned to stash 'equipment' in every possible location, bags, pockets, glove compartment, work cabinet, ect...;p

The 'joys' of womanhood, eh?

S.C.
Posted 10/28/2014 3:14 AM (GMT 0)
I just discussed this with my doctor, because I swore I had a hot flash. I am 41 and all the girls in my family went through early. I swear I am going through perimenopause. I also know though, that stress can affect our cycles. Anxiety sure is the root of so many problems. But it sure won't surprise me if your starting a bit of perimenopause also.
Posted 10/28/2014 1:04 PM (GMT 0)
Thank you all for answers.
Actually, sometimes it feels a bit sad... I don't know.
Not that we lose our womanhood with menopause or anything but, still... yeah

I never wanted a kid, not in my previous marriage (which I am glad I didn't have any kid from that excuse of man - sorry males here, no offense. You are cool guys). And not in my marriage now, even though my husband is very much younger than I am he shows respect to my every decision.
So sometimes it makes me feel like "will I regret it?". I am obviously going to have menopause early like my mom. But my husband says if I feel like having a kid sometime after menopause, we can always try adopting a kid/baby who actually needs a family. I would give all my love like I gave birth to them, that is for sure.

Oh god, I am starting to mumble. Sorry...
Posted 10/28/2014 3:25 PM (GMT 0)
Rr.,

Yeah, I hear you...it is those life stages that are profoundly changing us that are the hardest...

First puberty, then the transition into the second phase of womanhood.

There are however, blessings to be found at every age...it's not about the number of years, or whether or not we are still reproductively available, lol! It's about our mindset!! :)

I really like you and your husband's views on adoption as an idea...what a beautiful thing to consider.

(there is also IVF...which allows a woman to carry a baby after menopause, if this is something that might want as an option.)

S.C.
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