Holidays can be overrated

Merry Christmas! My dummy husband got super drunk last night and when I was scolding him for it he said he hates me and that I've failed as a wife because he wrapped more Christmas presents than I did and he made the sauce for our meal. I'm telling you....this foolish man just shouldn't drink. Of course this morning he has forgotten his nasty tongue and is all sunshine and roses where as I am feeling anxious and grouchy because I didn't sleep because I was so mad at him. I guess this isn't really an anxiety post because I know why I'm feeling anxious and why im keyed up. I'm just ready for a new year!

I hope everyone has a good day and you don't have to deal with any foolishness! Tonight we have Christmas dinner at my parents. I wore really uncomfortable pants last night so that I wouldn't over eat and I must say, it helped a lot and I don't feel gross today. That's a plus.

Anyway, I'm gonna go do breathing and try to not wanna smack my husband in the back of the head.

He deserves a good knock over the head. Thankfully his hangover is handling it for me.

Perfect! Two days of punishment suits me just fine!

My hangovers are ungodly.

Sorry to hear about the bottle talking last night. Alcohol certainly does change us. I was the only one who wasn't drinking at my parents last night since someone needed to drive my son home safely. But I try not to drink in front of my son anyways, I remember how it made me feel when I was a child and my father used to drink.

So try to enjoy yourself today and have a good holiday.

And yes, my hangovers are insufferable. And it usually takes me a couple days to feel normal again.

I'm sorry girls, i never did things like that to women, but i tried to fight every man in the building, of all
the things in this world that are bad alcohol is the worst, there is nothing it has not destroyed, Peace

Larry ***

Thanks for the supportive words friends. Overall my husband is wonderful and kind. I'd say he screws up like this about 4 times a year, so it could be much worse!!

Thanks country. Like I said, I can put up with anything that happens SOOOO rarely. I took to the forum to vent because it was a holiday and the hubs made a big mistake, but maybe I shouldn't vent about my marriage, because ultimately people can't know it unless they're in it.

Thanks, S.C.!

Wishing you many holiday wishes!!

xoxo

Thank you weary!! I share the same opinion and appreciate you allowing me to vent.

Thanks, Daesin. It really does help. If I talk it out with you guys (and not friends who actually know him so I don't embarass him), I tend to be calmer by the time he and I talk and I see my role in it too. His word choice was poor and I'm not justifying his behavior by any means, but I've reflected on the times that this has happened and I'm usually not helping matters. I was giving him a hard time for being drunk and embarassing and he was just trying to pass out and when I didn't shut my mouth and let that happen, the words came at me. Lesson learned on both our parts really.