Lymphoma fear/ permanent (Shotty) lymph node??

I am a 25 year old male and have noticed a small (about 1 centimeter in diameter) movable lymph node behind my right ear. Its been there for about 3.5 months. I haven't been sick or had an infection since I have found it.

I was freaking out. My family doctor said its nothing to worry about, but would send me to a specialist because I am worried.

I went to the Ear nose throat doctor and he told me its just a lymph node, and many times said, "he doesn't think its lymphoma, but if you are worried about it, I can take it out for you".

I felt great that day and the next day, but now a week later, I still have my doubts about it. Why can't I trust these doctors?

Could it be a shotty/permanet lymph node?? Does anyone else have these?

Wingo,
Did you see the responses on your duplicate post? I will copy the link here. I also locked that post, as we don't want double posting of the same concerns, due to confusion, and mimimizing the use of forum space. If you would like to continue this subject, please keep this thread open without starting a new one...(the posts can go on as long as you'd like.)
Here is the link with some good input regarding your concerns. Try to choose to trust your doctor, and let the burden of worry be his/hers. No doctor would send you along with reassurances if they believed for a second that something was wrong. Your best move is to seek to treat your axiety. It will be time well spent.

https://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=9&m=3302124

S.C.