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Posted 9/26/2015 10:02 PM (GMT 0)
Finally admitted to myself I've backed into a corner. Lease is up the 1st then it goes month to month and baby mama is pretty much refusing to get a second job because she is in college once again. Called my Mom and asked if I could move in until I get back on my feet....I'll be moving in soon.

Really anxious on how baby mama is going to react. Find myself constantly pacing the house. Suggestions?
Posted 9/27/2015 4:29 AM (GMT 0)
Hi RG,

I'm sorry to hear about your situation.:(

While it is good that your (ex?) partner is in college for the long term benefits it will eventually.bring...

...sometimes there is just not the luxury of going to school full time and not working to help support the family. :/

How is she planning on supporting herself if you move out?

Your main responsibility is to your son's and your own well being...especially if she is not willing to be a team player and contribute to your family.

If you are still invested in the relationship, and see hope for you as a couple, maybe you can take this time to both work on your issues, both as individuals and also and a couple.

Continue to take care of you and your son ..and perhaps she will come around in time?

...on another subject...how is the driving job coming along?

S.C.
Posted 9/27/2015 8:06 PM (GMT 0)
Only issue I have with her going back to college is how she did it. Supposedly she was becoming a manager so she "had to" quit her 2nd job. Well after she quit she goes back to college, cuts her hours, and still ain't a manager. Really makes me wonder on how truthful the management position was.

More than willing to pay my half the rent and extend the lease a month for her to get her act together and provide for my son at the same time. Made more than an attempt to salvage the relationship, communication is poor and then some.

Driving job is going alright. Have drove a few sub routes and had a few kids try to test me. All turned out alright and didn't have to call in PD (thankfully).
Posted 9/28/2015 12:43 AM (GMT 0)
That is hard...to know what her true intentions were...?

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt if I can...but if this has been a pattern of derisiveness...IDK...

I wish you the wisdom in what you should do for your family situation.

I know I keep saying it...but prioritize your little guy and your health/well being first!

Glad to hear the new job position is going well.:)

Peace and progress,

S.C.
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