Posted 10/23/2015 5:52 PM (GMT 0)
Cilly,
I agree with everything you have said...victims can be further hurt with people's ignorant remarks and thinking.
Keeping your focus on your immediate plans will be your most pro-active move...forget the haters! You must do what is safest, most comfortable and financially feasable for you at this time.
If that means standing your ground...then do so!!
You can only be a victim as long as you allow it...so stand tall and confident that you have every right to stay if you choose.
However, if for safety sake...or for better money management/less expensive living expenses...you find you need to move, then by all means look into the possibility.
We wish you the best in whatever you ulitmatley decide.
We are here cheering you on!
S.C.