WBDF,
I am glad that the statement regarding A/D's being a life long thing, simply because of long term use, did not discourage you. I disagree with this belief...and encourage you to go along with the plan of talking with another doctor/P-doc for help in your endeavor!
In addition, for some information you might find helpful...here is the link to a site on the subject, if you've not seen it already.
theroadback.orgIt is from our Resources here...which I encourage you to look through for more great material...including self help skills which might help you through your transition.
Post with us anytime for anxiety support.:)
S.C.