WRAS,
I am sorry that this is happening right now...I know you already have enough to deal with and the timing is just awful!
However, try not to get ahead of yourself. As of now, you just have a nodule that needs to be checked out...because that's what they always do. Almost always these things turn out to be nothing.
I know you don't want to go through the procedure...and who would? Ugh, we do have a burden dealing with these things as women! I am sorry you have to have it done...but you are stronger than you know, and I always hear things like, 'It was way easier than I had anticipated.'
Ask if you can take a benzo pre-procedure...I am pretty sure you'll be able to.
We are sending our love, support and prayers with you as you have your appointment. You will be going in around the 10 or 11th?
Post as needed...we will be here to help keep you calm.
It's going to be alright...
S.C.