HI Twiggy. I know you were waiting for one more opinion so here I am
:)
I agree you have not fallien back to square one or you would already have been off to the physicians.
You have a lot going on in your life and an increase in your anxyolitic may be the way to go to start. You are at the max dose of Lexapro but there are other meds in same category and Cymbalata is the newest one unless they snuck one in I have not heard of.
I do not know which comes first the anxiety or depression however I tend to think it is the anxiety for me as I can wake up anxious. I use the Valium like Lyn. So it is some time difficult to differentiate which is your predominating disorder.
You could make an appointment with a Pdoc now as most of them are very hard to get in to see as a new patient so you may have a wait.
Even if your symptoms settle down, I would think it would be good to at least discuss your meds with a Pdoc.
I hope your life settles down to a slow pace soon. Gentle hugs to you and know I care.