Hi there,
I need some help... exactly 2 weeks ago yesterday, my boyfriend of 5 months and I had our first ever serious discussion during which time he told me he needs a couple of weeks to think about our relationship because he's not sure he is ready for something serious (long story short, he has his own issues and has been hurt many times before). Of course I was devastated and still feel really bad considering I haven't heard from him yet and I am in limbo not knowing if we will move forward or end things...
So that gives you the background for my question... ever since it happened, I have had diarrhea every day. I usually get it in the morning right after I wake up but also at night too. Sometimes I get it after talking to someone about the situation with my boyfriend. I wasn't worried so much at first because I had been so upset over what was going on with my boyfriend and I attributed it to that. However, it is now going on the third week and I'm starting to feel worried. Especially because I don't feel as actively stressed and anxious over my love life as I did the first few days... I am basically going about my life and waiting to hear from him but trying to accept that whatever happens is for the best.
So why do I still have daily diarrhea? I have looked on web md and other sites and it made me feel even more nervous... although I have no other symptoms (like dehydration, bloody stools, abdominal pain, etc.) just plain old diarrhea. Nothing like this has ever happened to me before - is this what love can do? Or do I have a more serious problem? I'm afraid to go to the doctor because I worry she will want to do all kinds of tests... and I mainly think it's psychosomatic, especially because a friend said, "you may not feel better physically until this whole situation is resolved" - great!
Should I just keep an eye on it? Should I see my doc? Should I tell my boyfriend that no man is worth such physical distress? (O.K., the last one was a joke - but the first two are real questions...) and has anyone else ever been through a similar problem with stress related diarrhea?? Any help is appreciated!! Thank you :)