Hi Bill, remember me? I read everything you wrote. I am sorry she wouldn't change for the benefit of your marriage despite you changing everything about yourself. As someone who was cheated on seeing...
Now that she has been diagnosed officially she isn't handling it well. Today she tried to convince me that I raped her. Ugh...
She is moving out. I told her that I can't give her any more because she doesn't give anything back. I am done being on my hands and knees pleading for her to fight against this disease and come back...
Over a year ago my wife went to see the Psychiatrist. She lost her insurance 1 month after seeing him so the medication she was on was never given a chance to work. I never knew what the official...
Thanks Lindz, I hope it gets better. Her sex drive is literally zero. I think the embarrassment of her getting caught in the act has sent her into this state maybe. I hope she learns how to show it...
THanks Lindz Now that you are being treated and taking meds has your feelings towards your husband A) been a lot more favorable (loving him, wanting to be romantic with him) and B) been more...
Thanky ou to everyone who has been helping me cope with my wife's unchecked and untreated illness. She has her first appointment with the Psyche on Friday. Question: This is directed to anyone with...
Thanks Bill and Jondoe. There are some things though I have not been good at. For one the more I try the more my controlling behaviors come out. Controlling behaviors have historically proven to push...
I am not Bi-Polar, my wife I suspect is but won't be properly diagnosed for easily another week or so. I hope you get the right cocktail of medication. Your wife obviously loves you. Speaking from...
Update: I called the police on her after she punched me in the face. She is moving out. She is a mere shell of her former self. I knew she would do something rash as the psyche appointment got closer...
Update: We are having a good day today. I made her breakfast in bed and that seemed to get things started out on the right foot. I am still bothered tremendously at her unwillingness to be an open...
HI Jason, Thanks for sharing your experience. I share that feeling of being lost, hurt, confused, depressed and hopeless. Last night she lied again about something important and I went into an...
Thanks Bill, Tonight she is going over to her friends house. This is the most uneasy part about the relationship because I have no idea if she is really there or not. This was how she got caught...
Havana I will definitely try to keep everyone updated on our status. Thanks for speaking up. Thanks tortoise11 I will definitely buy that book right away. I always try to keep giving her reminders....
My wife and I dated for about 4 1/2 years before we decided to get married. Everything was, as they say, picture perfect for us. I was truly happy and in love with my wife (and still am now). We...