Hi Tortoise Sounds like you are doing MUCH better. Im glad to hear it. I know its a process. I know you are dealing with something very difficult and i commend you for all that you do to cope with...
Hello everyone, Thank you for all the support. Ive had alot happen in the last couple of days. My cousin succombed to cancer on Monday and we all went into Overdrive. Had to pull money together to...
Thanks Ebony, I really needed to hear that. It helps so much knowing someone has gone through this and come out OK. I havent started to think about starting over..just yet. I was enjoying the...
i feel as tho i am in the emergency lane, trying desperatly to get back onto the freeway.......:/...
Hello everyone! First i hope everyone had a great weekend. Mine was pretty eventful. Attended a few graduation parties on friday and saturday. Then on Sunday i had a great time at a BBQ. So sunday...
So sorry to hear about your loss Jaime. Dealing with a loss is very tough, but im happy to hear you are soldiering on. Hope things get better SOON! take care! Angie...
Hola everyone, I had a great day off. For the first time i wasnt dreading a day off of work. The feeling of dread came from having to figure out how to occupy my mind. I was always trying to keep...
Hello Ebony, I know this is going to be very tough for you, but it will get easier. I was where you are, having to readjust my lifestyle now that my husband was gone. I did the same thing you did. I...
Hello BMM Im so sorry you are going through this. Im married to a BP spouse and he left me 2 wks ago. He told me he did not want to be married anymore. At the time we were only married 3 months and i...
YEA Linda!! Ive always thought its the little things in life that count. So happy to hear you did something just for you!! It truly is liberating. Anything one can do to make yourself feel good about...
Hi LW Im so sorry to hear how your friend treated you. I know how much i have relied on my friends so much these last couple of weeks, i couldnt imagine my oldest friend treating me that way. That is...
Hi LW I agree with tortoise..the main reason i have been bringing up my spirituality is because had it not been for God i do not think i would have found the strength to endure. We all have our...
Thank you everyone! Im so happy to have found this forum and the WONDERFUL support. You know, every day i wake up and face the day. Before i had to motivate myself to get up and go to work. But now,...
Way to GO MT4!!! You stood your ground and took charge. Im so happy to hear this! I know it was difficult but you are one STRONG lady, and you showed him that. The mall is a great choice..you thought...
Hello everyone! Thank you so much for checking on me, its means so much! Yesterday, was so difficult. I took your advice and cried it out. I tried to be strong...and asked God for strength to get...
Hello BMM So sorry to hear that you are going thru this. My husband with Bp recently left me and also said he wanted a divorce. This was the 1st time he has left. I have drawn alot of inspiration...
Hi MT4 Wow..Well i think you did the right thing..keeping him out. All you can do is act civil and be there for your kiddos. They havent seen their father in a weeks and will need your strength. Stay...
Thank you everyone for your support! I need it! Today i will be packing his things and dropping them off at his friends. I am not sure how this will affect me and i am praying for the best. Wish me...
Hello ebony, I dont think you are overreacting. You are taking her treatment more seriously than she is. With by husband..i was always making excuses for his behavior. I guess that is how we cope...
HI liv.. I believe you did the right thing. You supported her unconditionally for 21 years, unselfishly, all the while suffering in silence. It was time for her to know these things. She may need to...
Hello ebony I agree with both Gem and bama...1. you are never too old to start over. Albeit it will be difficult, you never know what happiness is waiting for you around the corner..and 2. Life...
Hello everyone..I feeling like talking..or typing rather. Im feeling a bit of anxiety today. Over the last few days i felt better..i was coping with the separation. My husband has been gone a week...
hi Gem I was wondering what herbal tea you would recommend? From time to time i need a little calming down..especially at night. Thanks!...
Living... I am so impressed by you! Im go glad to hear that you are facing this illness HEAD ON! You are not letting this illness take control. I know it has taken you some time to get here..but u...
Hi MT4 Well i dont know if i can give the best advice..but ive been reading all your posts..and your struggle. I remember you saying how you realized your anxiety went away as soon as he did. So i...
Hello everyone!! Feeling so positive right now!! It started! after a few days of not contacting him..he txt me that we needed to talk. I asked him why? He said bills..etc..he said he wanted to meet...
Hello GEM! Glad to hear it! I too got a full nights sleep and it has helped wonders!!! i am back at work and feel so energized and ready to face the day!! Wonderful news!! Best of luck!...
Hi aqua, I am preparing myself for that situation. I have read so many posts from spouses that are going thru that maddening cycle. I am finally feeling like myself again. I am a little angry at this...
Hello desperateforhelp2 I know this is a difficult and painful time for you. You, like so man of us, are dealing with a spouse that is BP. My husband left me a week ago. Out of nowhere he went from...
mt4....Thank you for all of your words of encouragement and support. I know we do not know each other, but the fact that you are offering your help and support...means ALOT to me. this is truly the...
Hello everyone! It is such a relief to know i am not alone in this. I feel for all of you going thru this...and i wish it wasnt so. But i am thankful that we are all able to share out stories and...
Hi Not2l8 Glad to hear it!!! You are on your way! We have always heard the saying "take it one day at a time" and whoever first said it...really knew what they were talking about. The road is not an...
CJ....its the waiting that seems to be the hardest part. Im a person of action...and i knew i needed to do something. I just couldnt figure out my next move. He told me he needed "time." like you...
MT4....thank you so much for replying back. You have really given me something to think about. I have been on this computer for 4 days trying to wrap my mind around this disease and figure out my...
Hello CJackster....I know exactly how you feel. I have not been married as long as you have...but i married for love. My husband told me right before he walked out on our marriage that he was...
Thank you for replying back Living Well. I finally ate a little and feel a little bit of an appetite...This forum and my friends have been incredible in their support. So i thank them and you all. I...
Thank you everyone for sharing your stories. I have been married for 3 months....3 wonderful blissful months. That is until a few days ago. My husband was the most loyal and caring man i had ever...