I really wish I had a majic anwser for you... I just know i have been through my own personal H3ll this year... And the Man I love has done things I never beleived possible and I found myself in...
This sucks, believe me I know..... As much as you love her that little girl needs to come first.... Go to a lawer, ask your rights (she dosn't need to know unless you serve her with papers).... Most...
I think what everyone has warned me about has happened.... I think I have fallen into my own depression.... I am trying so hard to move on and do stuff for me and as long as I am on the go I am...
Casem, me too! My emotions change all the time... I think LFW is right part of it is Fear... Fear of being alone, of moving on , of what's left out there for me.... will I ever be able to trust...
Familyman, I know to well the love/hate roller coaster ride you are experincing way too well. My Husband has not been diagnosed with anything cause he won't go to a dr... but I see alot of the same...
I didn't go.... Work got busy, I wasn't in my office when he came by and he just left a note for another time... Before this I had made it clear I wasn't ready for anything other then friendship.. it...
So he called me today... and he was home when I dropped something off at his house and he's back to knowing somethings wrong... he wants me and the boys same old blah blah blah.... I repeated my self...
Casem, Thanks for thinking of us.... we are doing OK.... I should have started a new tread entitle "he HATES ME".... cause Thursday He had another Flip out.... he came over to watch the Boys for me...
Happy.... No... No... you misunderstood me..... I was being fecious (however you spell that) Laughing at the situation cause it's just so messed up... yep.... Confused and Frustrated are more the...
I am starting to be able to tell when he is sliping in and out of moods for the most part, but last night somthing weird happened... Two weeks ago he was in Happy Mode as far as the kids went.... At...
Casem, I believe you and I Mirror each others lives..... I have had it Rough the last year as well... But reading your posts always give me the feeling that I m not alone.... My Dad has a d&A issue...
LH, I have been dealing with the same issues with my husband for the last year.... the Jekyl and Hide, he loves me he hates me rollercoaster.... The crying and I want you back one minute... I hate...
Well I had a great weekend away with the boys.... It was nice to have the mental break... This week My husband is mostly stable.... He will not talk about anything serious( as in I have not been able...
Casem, I am at work and have not read this whole thread... but none the less.... You have once again taken the thoughts right out of my head.... I have been riding this he loves me, he loves me not...
Thanks for thinking of me.... Well... I did not call the police as I was told all they could do was charge him with uttering death treats and he does not need anymore legal trouble and all he did was...
Ok.... I think we are in a truely manic phase and if I could physically force him I would drag him to emerge. Last week he was miserable. Didn't work since Tuesday, at home (Could really be sick as a...
oh and WCC. I will take any direction you can point me too... I have been looking on the net non-stop and considering purchasing some books... But what i would really like is a When he feels like...
The more I Read on here and the more I read on-line. I am convinced this is Bi-polar. The key thing that was confusing was the lack of symptons before January Last year. However, the more I talk to...
I have been trying to 'Define' what stages I believe My Husband to be in incase we ever do make it to the dr. There are definatly times when he is Overly Happy, hanging out and Partying with 20...
Since I just posted all th ugly things in My world, i thought I'd try this: 1. Very Productive Day at work 2. My boys were happy to see me when I got home. 3. we ate Supper together as a family 4. I...
I officially Hate 2007...... First an Update... Haven't bothered to reschedule Dr's appointment (was canceled by Dr's office) cause calm and Nice guy is gone and replaced with Mr " I hate the world...
Hi, I have been away for work for a few days and wanted to thank you all for your encouragement. First we don't here In my province we have to go to an MD and get refered to a specialist for any...
Now here's an Update... For two straigt weeks he was "Normal", loving helpfull, considerate and all aound the man I once knew. I kwpt waiting for the other shoe to drop and help back on getting my...
Thanks Serafena.... Well. as Hard as it was it is getting easier.... I have been focussing alot on myself and my children... 1. I Hired a nanny to help out around the house and am going back to work...
Thank You all so much, My Husband does spend ALOT of time alone... I had thought he was lying but people have actually just seen him driving around and always alone. he claims to have eaten supper...
I Have another Question: for those of you with BP do you find yourself spending alot of time alone. 1. Long drives, walking around shopping malls, eating in pubs all alone. 2. Have you ever found...
Casem, I was reading your post and felt the similarities right away. I posted on here a few months ago as I have been having similar issues with my Husband who has not been diagnosed with anything as...
VAOutCast, Drugs are something I definitaly have not closed the door on, but am seeing no Physical proof. Missing money, drug parafanalia or even consitency to the way he's acting. When he gets...
Thank You all.... I am hurting so badley today and I am not really sure why. mostly I have been numb, as this has been going on for soooo long. Venting on here and feeling like I have something in...
Urggggggg..... OK... So I'm staying tough, I am not chasing him, leaving him alone when he's in a bad mood and strangly enough for a few days he seemed in a calm, yet he was making excuses to call...
Things are still Up and Down, He has been taking off out of Town alot so I have been filled with Worry, but also a sense of peace as I know he won't just show up.... He took off last Wednsday after...
LLeaky, although I completly agree with Loving frustrated wife, I too argue with myself everyday and come up with excuses to NOT take her advice. "Cause he's sick and I need to help Him" I am not...
Hammilton, I am definatly going to look into drug testing Hair.... We live in Canada and I do not know if the rules are the same here as they are in the US and I don't think this will be that...
Thank You Serafena, This is the internal battle I have been having with myself for months.... If he does not have a disorder and is just acting like ann @ss then there is no way I would put up with...
Thank You all for your Concern and advice.... I want to reassure you all that the safety and futures of my children are My NUMBER ONE priority and will come first. I have forced him (Via the police...
I am so freaked out..... A few days ago I told him that he needed to get help or stay gone... He flipped... did everything in his power to try and manipulate me into tears (treats of finacial,...
Thank You Olivia, For arguments sake...If he had bi-polar or any Mantal health issues for that matter, Do you have any advice on how I can get him to the Dr. I have tried Begging, Crying,...
I have talked to our family dr. a councellor and Mental health nurse.... None of which would confirm Bi-polar with out talking to him....But they all said it sounded like drugs.... I have searched...
I think my husband may be bi-polar!!! Before Christmas last year (very soon after the birth of our second child) I started to notice a behavior change in my Husband.. Just slightly at first... He...