Thank you Stray dog. Yes I did visit her twice. Yesterday I saw her and I feel she was a zombie. From the morphine. Barely able to stay awake to eat. I don’t know if this is how it’s supposed to be....
Update: my sister contacted me. The cancer spread to my Mother’s brain and chest. Possibly her bones. I have visited her twice. I am so upset by her condition and I am having a very hard time with...
Thank you Straydog, I called and texted and she will not answer or respond. I think I will feel better to at least go. I will not bang on the door like in the past. But just knowing that I made the...
This is hard, as My Mother's Birthday is August 15th. I want to go visit her, and I don't think my sister will let me in. She usually sleeps during the day and one of my nieces will let me in, but...
Straydog, thank you for your comforting words. They mean a lot as I do harbor tons of guilt. I do feel good knowing Hospice is there every week. The hardest thing to deal with right now is not being...
Thank you Sharon. Its not my Mother that refuses to see me, its my sister who is her "Guardian", who will not let me see her. My mother has dementia, so she is not able to consent to power of...
update- saw my Mom on Mother's day, and I was not happy to see her laying in urine soaked clothes and sheets. I changes her and took her sheets and clothes to laundry mat to clean them. I complained...
You are right. I really was hoping this time around she was doing the right thing and being truthful. I didn’t want to believe it. This has been going on with her far too long and it is draining. I...
After all this time since I last posted my sister is still saying she didn’t get my Mother’s social security info in the mail. I told her to call the dr office and ask them for it and she talks me in...
I agree with you. Its not hard at all to get the insurance information. My sister does not have POA, only Guardianship which is why she can't put us on the HIPPA form. I am not able to get POA for my...
So according to my sister, my Mother's oncologist said that my Mother has slow moving small cell carcinoma in lymph nodes. And because it is slow moving, she is not a candidate for chemotherapy...
Thank you Straydog. My Mothe does has social security and medicare, however to do the second opinion we need to know my Mothers medicare carrier and my sister is saying she lost that information and...
Thank you Straydog, We are trying to have my sister get a second opinion. We are asking her for my mother’s insurance carrier to try to get her into a cancer hospital, however my sister is not being...
Hi everyone, I have written here before but it has been a while. I found out from one of my sisters that my mother has stage 4 cancer. My other sister who is my mother's " caregiver" again withheld...
Straydog, as always I am always so very thankful and teary eyed at your amazing outlook and words of encouragement. I thank you from the bottom of my heart. It is so relieving to get a another take...
as an added response, I guess I wrote on here to vent. I have my own child to care for. She is 17 and has issues with depression and anxiety. I have so much going on in my own life, how can I tear...
Thank you all for your replies and your prayers. I would love to be able to take my Mother, but I am unable to take her at this point, as I live in the house with my ex, and I still need to get an...
Hi everyone. I was not sure where to post this, basically I am having a hard time dealing with family issues. In particular an on going situation with my oldest sister and Mom which I have posted...
I am still having nipple discharge only when I squeeze out of right nipple. Now after squeezing many times (obsessively) out of my left nipple. It started out what appeared to be clear a few months...
I have written in several forums. I know now I have extreme health anxiety. I just wanted to write in about a sort of new issue. When I do self breast exams, I squeeze my nipples to check for...
Thank you for your advice Scaredy Cat. Are you saying to get him a gift? I am just asking because I plan on buying him nothing. I have very ill feelings towards him. I am not making the environment a...
Hello, I have posted on here on all different topics. I was not sure where to post this. I have recently split up with my ex-boyfriend of 17 years. We have a 16 year old daughter together. I found...
Thank you Straydog. Yes I would like to although she is not very fond of going to the doctor. She wants to wait a couple days to see if the symptoms subside. I have always been one to "rush" to the...
Hello, I have posted here about myself, as well as the other conditions, ( I am all over the place..lol) I have a concern regarding my 16 year old daughter. She has told me last night that upon...
Thank you Lendi! I can not afford counseling, I wish i could. When i get better financially I will for me and my daughter. I will figure something out hopefully soon. It is very uncomfortable living...
Thank you SC for your comforting words, and advice! I agree to have our daughter give him a present. This situation has been hell for me for the past two years. First of all, when he came back home,...
Hello, I just found out my partner of 17 years cheated on me for over a year two years ago. We have been living together for 17 years, and have a 16 year old daughter. I am done with him. We are...
I am writing here because my whole story is here. It’s just a terrible situation. My mom and sister wind up getting evicted. I told my sister she needs to tak care of her situation and stop making my...
Thank you straydog for taking the time to respond to my posts and for your understanding. You are so right in everything you said. I have a tendency to want to try and fix things or control things...
Thank you straydog. I drove to see my Mom today and when I got there they told me she rescheduled her surgery. I went to her house. She looks good under the circumstances and she says she feels good....
Also, I am sorry for all of the typos. I use my phone and it auto corrects almost everything I type :/ Thanks again for letting me vent :)...
Thank you Straydog for your kind words and advice, it means more to me than you can imagine :) My sister has a rare condition called stiff person syndrome where the muscles stiffen up progressively....
I just found out my mom had a mass on a mammogram discovered a year ago and she never followed up. A couple months ago on a routine mammogram they discovered the mass is bigger. She never told anyone...
Thank you straydog! Yes I have an appointment, and I apologise, I do not see response from you on June 25 under my post. Could be a glitch? I was just looking to see if anyone had anything similar,...
Hi, I have a small amount of watery brown and sometimes a thick yellow small amount of discharge coming from one Montgomery gland only when I squeeze on one breast only. I am 43 yrs old, my last...
Hi, I had a little black spot on my aerola about half an inch away from my nipple. The black spot was so small, 10x smaller than a poppy seed. Anyway, I picked at it because i was curious of what it...
Thank you Dee716. It is hard to stay positive. I feel like it will never go away, but I know it will. Just seems like it's taking its time. Seems like you cut so much out of your diet and there is...
Dee716- Did you always have GERD, or did it come on at the same time your gastritis did. I am asking because I worry I will always have GERD long after the gastritis heals. Also, do you feel that by...
Dee716- Thank you, it helps to get positive reassurance :-) . Mine has been going on since January, so about 5 months for me too. I appreciate the helpful food tips. Sometimes the reflux is so bad,...
Hey Draegon- just throwing it out there for what it's worth, but a lump in the throat sensation can be related to acid reflux. It can also cause a variety of symptoms some of which you describe. I...
LPR, Glad to hear your tests went well and the burning in your throat has gone down, hopefully you continue to heal. I hope we all do. I always felt I had a stomach of steel, until this happened....
Patient21- That would be great to get a couple recipes, even just one would be wonderful, I will email you. Thank you! The Herbal tea worked great for me. It was Celestial Seasonings Lemon Zinger...
LPR- Glad your throat symptoms have been a little better. Every little bit helps right? I am not familiar with the PH test so I'm afraid I cant give much feedback. Is this a test you do at home? I...
Please let me know how that cookbook park works. I was thinking of buying that book myself. I was wondering how the testing went for LPR go away as well. I didn't know what that test was until I...
Wow, I was told to stay away from chocolate as it relaxes the sphincter therefore allowing the acid to get through. Also told to stay away from fat as it produces more acid to breakdown, as well as...
I could only hope I am improving!! Or maybe I finally found my remedy, LOL!! :yeah: Seriously though, I have had good days to where I feel like this thing is finally on its way out the door, then...
mik- that is a wonderful story, thanks for sharing! It is so good to hear success stories, it gives us going through bad times hope for getting through it. I agree that medicines that are good for...
I hear ya! I imagine if this goes on for me for another 2 months, I should get that testing as well, although I am not sure if my health insurance will pay for it. I am getting by day by day. Went...
cocktaildress I have not tried that, but I read to stay away from oil due to the high fat content, especially vegetable oil, so a little nervous to try it. thanks for the suggestion!...
My doctor said that I need to ween off of them because she said if not, there would be acid rebound. Plus I already knew about it after doing some research. When you had your endoscopy done, did they...