Hi Bobbykyle, I'm sorry to hear that you are having so much trouble. I have had CD for 13+ years now and have had some ups and some hard downs. I have not had the bag, I have had anal fistulas and...
I think you should apologize to your wife. I have Crohn's as well, since 1999. My wife of 17 years does most of the cooking so when I have a flare, she takes it quite personally that she has hurt me....