Leaveorstay, Sounds like we are kind of in the same situation. Fun isn't it? This past week has been tough. Almost everyother night she won't come home and will stay at a friends house because she...
I think you are right about her needing time. But part of me will be reluctant to give her that time if she is unwilling to put anything into saving the marriage first. I told her that I cannot make...
It's been a while since I've posted but there hasn't been much improvement. I'm over the whole "texting the dude at work" thing, I'm comfortable that it is over. But my wife is to the point where she...
I went and saw a counselor last Tuesday. It helped but it was more of a "brutal truth" kind of thing. I'm going back to see him next week too. I just don't know how to handle the roller-coaster of...
My wife had her appointment today. She said she didn't get too much out of it but she came away with a lot of pamphlets and information. It was only about 35 minutes but I think they just kind of...
I feel that I have talked about it to death with her and she doesn't have any answers to give me. I'm not going to completely shut down, I just want to give her space to find out what is going on in...
I had my appointment yesterday and it went OK. The guy told me that the situation does not look good. But he did tell me to cool off a little and let her figure things out. She has her first...
Additionally, we work different shifts to save on childcare costs but it has grown to her wanting to be at work more so she wont have to be at home and deal with the problem. And since then a guy at...
My wife and I will be married for 5 years next month and we have two girls, 3yrs and 1 yr. Her parents divorced 2 years ago and she has struggled with it ever since. She grew up thinking her parents'...