Sadly enough, there are others out there that "get it". I really wish that there were more of us, and that we would speak out more, act out more. The other responders here may be offering some coping...
Sounds to me like she may be feeling blue, and as a result, she is trying to get out of her rut. She may feel stuck and feel unable to "fix" things, so she's looking outward (him) instead of inward...