Thank you Jamie!! I couldn't agree more!!! :yeah: :yeah: :yeah: Jenn :scool:...
Thank you Karen! Words I need to repeat periodically everyday/all day for awhile I think. I do hope your day is going well!! Hugs....Jenn :scool:...
I was able to get in yesterday to see my new therapist and she is wonderful!! She has a good plan in place for me tackling one issue at a time knowing that likely my dealing with stuff will cause DH...
Yes Karen that is my plan.......I have always backed down however to keep the peace but that is where I do hope therapy will guide me. I am sorry you are feeling bad today....stupid weather does that...
Hi Karen- I am doing pretty well. I am trying to maintian the strength of my convictions. I just told him that I realized awhile ago that I needed help to deal with my insecurities and that I made...
:tongue: I will read it Jamie. Thank you! Hugs....Jenn :scool:...
Thanks again....I have been siphering all of my "girl power" today....they all are behind me and full of support which helps. You guys of course are my support as well....but who'da thunk this would...
:sad: Tears,..... Thank you Karen. I will and can't wait to get some of me back. Just need to stay angry for a bit. Which is difficult for me. Hard few days........Thanks again....Hugs....Jenn :scool:...
Latest- DH has decided to not go on the MAOI's but refill his cymbalta for now and go back in three weeks. Apparently I am a psycho, insecure B***h........if I fix that then everything else will be...
You are correct Karen I am a survivor. AS much as I hope that everything works out I do have to start looking out for me......no one else will that's for sure. I have done lots of research today and...
Thank you Karen! You guys are so wonderful!! I don't plan on having my pity party too long......I never do. I am trying to hope that he is making the right decisions for himself, however I have...
Thank you Jamie! You will likely be hearing from me as things progress here. Dh takes his last cymbalta on thursday and then he is off meds fro 2 1/2 weeks......Won't take long before things to...
Thank you both so much! This is difficult for me. I just don't know what to do anymore......I feel like I am left in the dark and he makes all his decisions on his own without even talking to me. I...
Hey All- Hubby has been on cymbalta amongst many other things (you view my previous posts without boring you all again) :wink: .....he told me not even two weeks ago when he saw his MD today that he...
Karen you silly girl!! You are never butting in! I so can't wait to hear all about the pup......so exciting, yet trying times :tongue: Potty training....what a nightmare. But so worth it in the end!...
You are correct......nothing can stop true love...not even a stubborn old bat :turn: I will remain wary and I am doing pretty well on taking care of me. I want to say something to him when he pulls...
Hi Jamie!! Dude you need to sleep :wink: Dh has been working lots of hours at work so I rarely see him these days. He seems ok I guess.....however I remain on guard as I am used to him pretending and...
Sounds like a perfect evening!! You derserve that! Cheers...Jenn :scool:...
So glad to hear you are feeling better Karen!! I remember when you talked about getting the puppy......That sure is coming up quickly!! Mine will be 1 in march she is a devil!! But I love her to...
Thanks for the information Jamie!! That is just crazy to me.....but if it working I am glad. You sir need some sleep!! I do hope you relax and can get some restmy friend!! Thanks once again!! Cheers...
Hey you two!! How are you? Jamie you sound like you are busy and doing better....it is so nice to see some zip in your notes :tongue: Karen I do hope you are hanging in there you mentioned having a...
Hey Karen- It is cold here!! I am not liking this at all......need a beach :scool: After christmas it can get warm and all this snow can melt!! More coming our way which we will happily send your...
Enjoy your day as well Karen!! I do try and keep a good attitude.....not always the easiest but I know I will be just fine no matter the outcome. I am taking my son out to mounds today so we can get...
Oh Karen that is wonderful news!!! March will be here before you know.......What a great thing for you to look forward to. Yeah what I said had no impact on DH....he is on his own. I can't take this...
Well DH emailed me back......Lots of I know I am not showing you I love you.....I am feeling worthless, no self esteem, no confidence, wish I'd have done could do more with my life......all negative....
I used to drink coffee too....but it started to make me have heart palpitations.....so I had to give it up. Boy did that suck......2 week headache! That's ok though I have enough energy for two...
Thank you Karen!! I am taking sometime today to do some serious thinking. I have always read that a persons actions/reactions to you are a true window to their feelings. With that said it should be...
Thank you Karen......You too deserved a night out and I am glad you got some time to enjoy this time of year no matter how cold the midwest is!! Ours is coming your way. Snuggle up it is chilly!!! I...
He could yes but likely won't return until scheduled appt, 1/ 18/10. I am afraid his reflective time is him not wanting to be married anymore.....which is what started this whole thing....he blames...
Today we have bitter wind chills.....schools are delayed and hour. Wind chill right now I think is 10 below zero, YIKES!! No Jamie when it snows here it is many many inches. SUCKS!! DH hates his job...
You both sounds like you had awesome nights!! Both well deserved! I just finshed blowing 18 inches of wet heavy snow from my drive and walk.....sigh and it is still snowing, although looks as if the...
One more thing- You both are awesome at directing me away from the issues for just a bit and get me chatting about[b] life......THANK YOU !!!!! [2] You will never know what these little idle breaks...
Always cool :scool: :scool: :scool: Not very warm at the moment.........Big snow thrower working tomorrow for sure :mad: I need to move south!!! :scool: Warm hugs to you (although you don't need them...
To us all sunshine :scool: :scool: :scool: working on about 6 inches of snow now......still coming down and the wind is rapid. Kids hoping for a snow day:) Stay warm......Cheers....Jenn...
Thank you Karen you are the best!! Hugs.....Jenn :cool:...
Thanks for the words guys....I do appreciate it. I hope you have enough greens left Karen for a wreath! How talented you must be. The weather here has started already.....roads are awful, icy!!...
He has been off for about 7 weeks.......his duties have not changed however they have gotten busier as the company he works for consolidated and closed a conneticut plant and moved everything to...
I should add however.....I did kick up my heels!! I had a great time........Plenty to dance with and tons of conversation!\\ :yeah:...
Hi All- I am doing ok.....party was good but DH was not fun to be around. He left without wishing anyone a merry christmas or even saying good bye. I was so upset. He had so many people coming to him...
How are you doing today Jamie?? Did you sleep well.......It is awful early there right now if my math is correct. I do plan on doing some heel kicking tomorrow....can't wait :tongue: I totally...
no fun at all!! We too have some snow...and it is cold! I don't mind the snow but I wish it was 80:-) Working on the weekend is no fun! We have a christmas party to go to...DH's work party. Always a...
Sounds like work does you good Karen! That is awlays a good thing when you like your job. DH is CRABBY!! Depression BAD.......Happy Friday!! Hugs....Jenn...
We all have those and that is what we are all here for.....to support one another. Here's to a good day for you as well Karen!! Hugs...Jenn...
Well but you still got a good 10 hours didn't you? So that is fantastic!! Hopefully will make today a good day for you Jamie!!...
I feel your pain Karen.......I keep saying these are my last dogs as my kids will be out of college and on their own when the youngest two get old. Then I can have some "freedom"....but who am I...
Geez Jamie!! You have been through the wringer with that infection!! I do hope you get well rested this evening. Thank you so much the both of you once again for the hope and words....they mean so...
I did thank you!! I am familiar with second winds....I live off of them these days /community/emoticons/turn.gif ...
I must apologize......I have been spelling your name wrong on the past posts....my bad /community/emoticons/smhair.gif Please forgive me Jamie!! That(jamie) is how I would normally spell it so I am...
I know Jaime....you certainly are not guaranteeing me anything. However, having been through it you certainly have more knowledge than I do. I love my tea in the morning.....I am a green tea...
Thanks Karen!! I too hope Jaime is on target and that is all that is happening. This is very diffcult right now and I feel as if he is pushing me to the edge. I am trying to hold on and hope I can....