I don't know about others but I tried to get off it and gain 10 lbs each time I get off it. It's a crazy drug, which I am still on :( No solution for you, just know how you feel....
I was in your wife's position when I had met my college boyfriend during my junior year. He was a virgin and I wasn't. Worst yet, I had 5 partners before him. It was really hard for me to handle his...