Heeja King, I am with Harrington, she either still has feelings for you or feels uncomfortable (because of the idea that she hurt you for example). I used to be very lonely as well, though I had tons...
Heej Life, I am sorry for you feeling like this. Not too long ago I was 16 as well, and things weren't that great either. When I was that age, every day it become more apparent that I wasn't the...
Heej LF, This sounds awfully familiar to what I have been through. Please go to Wikipedia (or a library) and search for Body Dysmorphic Disorder. To tell you a little of my history, basically I...
Heeja Warspite, Perhaps you can share some more? How long since you had that argument? What is your background? Having a fight with someone you care for is always hard, and if you don't talk about it...
Heeja Gync, It is incredibly hard to get over this alone, so I applaud your move to come here and try to find different ways! I am here for you if you want to talk. How to deal with your mood is...
Heej :) Wow, awesome to see all you here! Awesome to hear that you are working again Karen, how is that going for you? Is it work you can enjoy? Kitt, how's you? With some luck, I won't be around too...
Heej Lola, Everyone is different. When I look around, I see the people around me hanging out at nights, partying, talking about who is dating who etc. For me, I am not interested in that. I am 20...
Heeja NW! Thank you! How have you been doing, and more import, how are you doing now? Hope everything is OK. Knowing myself I can't really say how often I will pop in, study and teaching is taking...
Hola! Phiiiieeeewwww, long long time. How long, like 2, perhaps 3 years? I still see some familiar faces around, Kitt, Jamie, how are you all doing? Karen, you still lurking here as well? Anyway, for...
Heej everyone, Long time, no see. Due to circumstances I can no longer perform my duty as a moderator on Healingwell as you might have noticed. I asked Peter to relieve me from duty. I hope you are...
Heeja Blender, Is it possible for you to give us a bit more information? One thing I'd like to share though. There is a saying: "This, too, shall pass". Everything is constantly changing, and nothing...
Heeja, Welcome to HW! I am sorry to hear what you are going through. It sounds that you have some similar problems as I have. I am 19, and also suffer from severe social phobia which led to me...
Heeja Bella, Dogs are awesome :-). Hope everything will calm down inside your head. Take care! Erik...
Heej Jamie, Good to hear you made it :-). Take care mate! Erik...
Heej Gustafer, I think I can relate to what you are going through. When I was between the ages 15 and 17 I was also obsessed with girls. Unfortunately I am also afraid of them due to my social...
Heej Ealey, You seem to be a nice person, and it would be nice if you would be feeling a bit better, with or without her. Maybe you can let it rest, but maybe it is time to invest some of that...
Heej Flutetoot, Welcome to HW. I am sorry to hear what you are going through. It must be hard. But there is always hope, as Aragon so rightly stated in the Lord of the Rings. As Karen said, one day...
G - Grateful May I be grateful for who I am, what I am not, what I can do and what I can't do....
Heej Aurora, My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'd like to share one something with you that helps me. As often as I can, I try to think "This, too, shall pass". It helps to make me realize hard...
Heeja Kisora, Welcome to HW, and as Jamie I want to compliment you on your courage of coming here. Acknowledging you aren't as happy what you want to be is the first step towards improvement. First...
Heeja Tony, I want to wish you all the very best, and give you a big fat hug :-). I hope your counselor can help you sort things out. In the meantime, aren't there things you used to enjoy doing?...
Heeja, Just dropping in to say that you aren't what you say you are. You are worth just as much as everyone else, and have the basic rights to happiness as everyone else has. You are 16, so there has...
Heeja DTU, I am sorry to hear what you are going through. As Kitt said, it might be a good thing for you to seek professional help somewhere. You are worth living a life where everyday feels like...
Heeja, This morning my parents, psychiatrist, and I had a talk about what to do. Conclusion: This year I will go into a daycare program, and hopefully that will have some positive results. In the...
Heej Bluebird, Thank you for the kind words. As mentioned before, Thursday will in all probability be decision day. But both my therapist and my parents agree that it probably is better not to start...
Heej, Haven't been around for a while, and I think it's time for an update. The study will begin coming Monday, and the last week I've been extremely anxious. Unlike anything before. I could break...
Heeja Akram! Congratz to you Sir! :-) All the very best my friend! Erik...
Heeja Lost, I am sorry to hear what you are going trough. I have to go with Kitt, a counselor can help a lot. Or maybe medications is the answer for you. One thing I urge you to do is to seek help....
Heeja Forever, Nice to meet you. I am a 19-year-old , so around your age. Just as Karen said, the time right after puberty is the time the great questions of the world can kick in and that can take...
Heeja Mike, First of all, I am sorry to hear what you and your wife are going trough. The real problem with depression is that there isn't a medicine for it, or a cure that will always work. It is...
Lemon Ice :shocked: :shocked: :shocked: One night left :rolleyes:...
Heeja Christi! It is OK. It is OK that you're having problems with doing the things you do. Maybe it'll help to think so. After a while I became so lost in grief that I didn't notice that the real...
Thanks for the kind words Jamie :-)!...
Works every time for me :-) Click! ...
2 days remaining :-) Hopefully, the next couple of days I will be able to keep the same mood as I have now, which is pretty good. At last, it is beginning to sink in that I don't need to have the...
Heeja! Thanks for the support everyone :-)! Yea, it's getting pretty close now. But I have a good feeling about it, think I will do fine. At least, if the fellow students are a bit OK. But I think...
Heeja everyone, Tension is building steadily as the new school year approaches. As some of you might know, I am going to try again this year, this time an environmental based study in my home town....
Heeja Stronglady, Isn't it the same? I mean, we can learn most about patience and love from our worst enemies. If we can love him / her / it, we can love anything. So our worst enemies can be our...
Did you just saw Usain Bolt? I went nuts. I mean, how is it possible that you can run so fast? Phiew. Man, I just cried a little :-). Perfection in motion. Edit: Here is a video:...
Heeja, I'm sorry, but I can't really help you with this. I assume your doctor can, so maybe you can call him or so. Take care! Erik...
Heeja Jamie, Love it :-) Serious. Thanks for sharing, you are an amazing guy! Erik...
Heeja Polar, I'm sorry to hear how you feel. Yes, I do find myself on the edge of crying for no apparent reason. Though I am not irritated, as I blame myself for everything, not others. Have you...
Heeja Surveyor! First of all, welcome aboard the HW forums! I hope you enjoy your stay here. There are a lot of lovely and compassionate members here, as you will hopefully find out. Your story had...
Heeja Froster, I am sorry to hear what you are going through now. It is horrible to feel unwanted, or as you call it, a freak. And it is so hard to put that feeling aside. Something I am still...
Heeja b4, Welcome aboard! Feel free to say whatever you want to say b4. Sometimes it can be a huge relief just to write down everything that is bothering you. But you can take steps at a time, when...
Heej! I have absolutely no scientific foundation for this, but eating fruits and so to get your basic vitamins helps me a lot, probably since there so delicious for a part. As Ran said, vitamins...
Heeja Air, I think I understand what you are talking about, though some more info wouldn't harm us. I think the best thing you can do is to have a good chat with here and sort things out. If you...
Heej, Thanks for the support, I think I forgot to say that in my previous post. Yes Kitt, the last couple of days have been really hard. Right now, I still don't very high hopes, but at least I know...
Heej, Sorry... I am confused. Everything seems to fall apart. The battery is dead, and nowhere to recharge. I mean, I am so selfish. I feel sadness for myself instead of happiness for another when...
Heeja, I am sorry. Every time I've been away from HW I seem to come back here with a "negative" message. Just got back from vacation, it was OK, though I had some really hard days. And now I don't...