My boyfriend calls me every night at 10 PM and talks for one to two hours. He cycles through his thoughts and it feels to me like some days he is making his way and the next day he is back in the...
I truly think my BF is depressed and needs help. Last night he said that he has accepted that it is his lot in life to have stress and that he doesn't have the luxury to not have stress. He said so...
So, an update is in order .... first we are "officially" back together ... but I said that I want to do things differently. I have noticed that I am more willing to be open and mindful of our and in...
Well, maybe the story isn't over after all ..... He called about continuing our talk, so we met up yesterday and are meeting up again tonight. I am managing my anxiety .... because I have none. I...
I went over yesterday. We had a very friendly conversation after I showed my vacation photos and told my stories. By friendly, I mean, about on the surface topics. I thought the time was going to end...
I am still taking things day by day and really not feeling any anxiety about this. Here is the update to his daughter. She went to a 28-day private treatment facility that is renowned for its care...
I am back from my fabulous vacation. My exBF and I were in contact a few times by email while I was away. We have also had one phone conversation. I have had ups and downs. I do know that I am not...
Thank you, Karen, for responding to my posts. I can tell that you take your moderating duties to heart and help a lot of people on this forum. It's nice to have someone that responds to my wildly...
I am pretty sad to day about the potential of this relationship being possibly lost. So, I am grieving. I am starting to realize that this would be many years of struggles. I would be willing to...
I did not reply to his email, but he sent another the following day on July 1, acknowledging our 4th year anniversary. He said that it is the best relationship that he has ever been in and thanked me...
He did respond in a very big way .... for him ..... He acknowledged that his behavior led to the actions of "how things played out." (e.g. the breakup) He apologized that it made me feel sad. He said...
Well, I sent him a long email last night expressing my feelings both good and bad. I expressed that I did not like how we had parted, that I was angry about some of the things that he said. I...
Why is the ball in his court? I wrote out my feelings and am glad that I did. I didn't send what I wrote to him. It's sad to me that we are in this situation....
I spoke with my ex's son yesterday. He was glad to hear from me and said that his dad told his sister about the breakup. He (exBF) said that he had lost interest in everything, had treated me badly...
Thanks for the hugs. Yes, it helps a lot. I am also very busy / distracted at work right now. I have some really great projects and a trip of a lifetime planned with my adult children for two weeks...
Thank you for the welcome. I really don't know if he sees me as his girlfriend at this time, quite honestly. I left. I took my things. I have not called. He has not called me. Before this, we talked...
Hi - I am new to this web site and have read through a few threads and find you all to be understanding and helpful. I don't know what to do, if anything, in the following situation. My boyfriend...