Need some help... Brought my wife the rest of her stuff today, haven't talked to her in about a week. I unloaded everything and was about to be on my way when she started crying asking me not to...
Got some blood work and crap done today cause I don't know where my own wife has been. How pathetic does that sound? Hopefully they got good news for me....
Thanks Karen :turn: You're right I probably would be surprised as I have most likely never gotten it from my wife. Time to start a new chapter....
Thx bambola, I won't be responding as I got the same impression you did....
This made me giggle pretty hard, it's an email I recently received from my lying spouse. "I am sorry.... You have no reason to believe anything that comes out of my mouth. There has never been...
Hey bambola_2nv We were married just about 8 months before she started talking to her ex. It'll be 1 yr next month, we were together for about 4 yrs in total though. No kids thankfully. I agree, I...
Thanks worriedgirl, any advice or comments are very welcome. Yea if she had been open with me the story may have had a different ending. According to her mother though, she has a history of seeing...
You are right Karen, I can not trust her. I got a new piece to the puzzle today...my wife has been saying for some time now that she has been visiting a certain friend, she said she was with her this...
*Update* So I did what everyone told me not to, I let her back in...I know I'm a dumb a$$. Anywho, I caught her in another little stupid lie and decided to ask her best friend for advice. Her friend...
Wanted to get some opinions on this: sent my wife a spreadsheet from her text messages during the month of may. I had highlighted all the texts to her Ex, this was her response. Her: Ok, I don't...
Thanks Karen, yea I had a lot to deal with but you're stuck with me now lol. As for the leg thing, it was difficult at first but I'm used to it now....
Heya Blaire I'm gold, glad to meet ya. I am not experienced in the things that you are dealing with but after I read your post I felt it was necessary to give you a couple words. Friends are a great...
Thank you all for your kind words of wisdom and encouragement, words can not even begin to describe how hard this is. I am actually a disabled war veteran, I lost my right leg in combat about 4 years...
You're right Mrsnyums we both have things we need to change the only difference is I was willing to do these things with my wife but she was not. The woman I fell in love with and married chose the...
Thx SueTho, yea pretty stupid lies but I think it hurts more since she does not seem to care at all and just continues to tell me it is what "I" wanted. Whatever helps her sleep at night I guess....
*Update* It's been a while since I've updated on my situation, it has been a roller coaster ride. We had been working on our situation, she was still at her mothers but I would continue taking her...
Agreed, she has put me through a lot and I'm not saying that all will be forgiven because there was a trust that was broken and needs to be regained. At the same time I feel I owe it to myself to at...
@Chartreux: Thank you, I am looking into counseling. @Nobodynew: I am not considering you an enemy I just thought you were talking about something else. I have been very appreciative for your advice...
Not sure If you're reading that right. I'm not defending my wife by any means just her mother....
I understand completely and thank you for sharing your story. Her mom, however, didn't lie to me. No one knew what was going on, just my wife. She told her mom she would be hanging out with a friend...
This is an update from my last thread. No worries Getting by I pretty much assumed why the other thread was locked. So I find out today that my wife isn't even in the state, she left to go party with...
I've thought about it and incorporated different ideas from you guys into my game plan. I am going to give her until Friday (unless she tries to contact me). After that I am going to contact her and...
Sounds like something I could use. Somewhat of an update...I didn't call but I did send her a text just saying happy birthday I love you and she did respond saying thank you I love you. Nothing too...
I appreciate that getting by. You are correct I am rather uncomfortable when it comes to things such as taking control. I have thought about counseling and am looking into it. It's hard for me to...
Oy vey I'm gone a few hours and look what happens lol. You both have very valid points and every person is different so no need to argue on my account. My wife is a very impulsive person so I am...
I appreciate your input Nobodynew it is rather helpful. She is currently staying with her mother, and her mother confirmed this. She hasn't tried to talk to me yet (only been a day and a half) but...
Thanks Nobodynew We used to go out quite a bit before we were married but i found it to be unhealthy and expensive to go out drinking every night. She's told me before that she's bored and tired of...
Tomorrow is her birthday and well because she isn't here I had to cancel the surprise party I had planned and her mom just told me she plans to hang out with a girlfriend tomorrow that I do not...
Thank you for your response. How does one wait and just see what happens with something like this that could very well change your future? I'm not good at waiting as I can't help but think negatively....
New to these forums and thank you ahead of time for reading a topic that has probably been posted before. Day started like any other, woke up around 8 am and my wife was already at work. I text her...