Buddy, as long as you understand that you can be willing to leave. No your worth. If it's gonna work out it's gonna work out. You want the girl you fell in love with, but she's changing and it seems...
Yano to be honest my brother it sounds exactly what my girlfriend went through.. She got a puppy 3 days before we broke up which essentially helped her emotionally after we broke up. She quit her job...
I think she will easily realize it. And I understand where the people around you are coming from. They have a valid point. But like I said I think there are outside factors that affected her. The...
It's a difficult time honestly so I know exactly how you feel. But I gurantee the more you improve the more she will notice...
She's trying to do both .. She's trying to make you jealous and trying to test you to see how you react. Don't listen to it and just let it be because she hasn't been with anyone. You guys just broke...
She said for Friday so this way she can secure another day to see you as opposed to you just dropping off the stuff. She wants to see you more and she is gonna make effort to do so. Play it cool-...
And you're positive she feels the same way ?...
Listen man I went through it and I needed someone. I'm just returning the favor to karma because I didn't think I was gonna make it through. And just some motivation, me and my girlfriend DID get...
I think she's gonna realize she doesn't feel the same way she did when she was outside the states. And she will come to her senses eventually. But being her friend I'll just make her NOT miss you...
Do NOT I repeat do NOT speak with her. And if you do have small talk like that, show you are unphased. You shouldn't be her friend. You don't look at her in that way so don't give that as an option....
Give her time to adjust back to the states. Time will answer all your questions. I hate saying generic stuff like this but things will work out on their own. When she realizes she messed up she will...
Uhhh I guess your best bet is to just be civil for the time being. You don't really want it to be awkward....
Well maybe she didn't actually fall out of love with you. My girlfriend didn't. And hey buddy, me and her are back together which everyone thought we wouldn't. I just gave her space and she realized...
Yeah don't talk about getting back together with her. Play it out a little. Gauge her actions when you get back to the states. That's where the real test is....
I know part of the reason it hurts is because you invested a lot in goingn to see her. Take your separate time from her. Go out and enjoy youreself. Seriously. You guys are on vacation and she's...
From your story, it seems as if she might be a little over whelmed by the fact that you were over seas with her. Maybe she wants to party but listen.. You need to actually focus on bettering...
Hey buddy, Do you want to give me a call ? Much easier to speak with u...
Just a quick update. Things are getting better. We remained in contact. Almost back together. The only issue is she has trouble trying to change her feelings more positively. For example, she's in a...
Do you think I should cut all contact with her until she's ready? She said she would like to remain friends. I'm so lost....
What hurts is that it was out of nowhere. I feel it's the depression talking but of course I could be wrong....
I read on a lot of other forums that she is trying to let me go as easily as possible. But she has a genuine heart and I think she's going thru a lot more than I can imagine....
She keeps saying things like "it's going to take a while to find myself so don't wait for me".. And it kills me because I don't want to just let her leave. She's my world. I really hope things work...
Hello all, I stumbled on this website when trying to find help on what to do in my situation. Me and my currently ex girlfriend were best friends for a year. After that year, we decided to take our...