Her decision making has been so childish from the get go...i thought i could change that or help her grow up and i really thought she did...but from the way she handled the situation with her ex..to...
Your probably right, she said she loves me but cannot give me anything romantic or a relationship right now...but at the same time, shes not giving me much hope to stick around...
the last thing i said was this... Im sorry i wasnt perfect....but u were all i could have ever asked for....not for your looks, not for your body...for your heart....yur personality....your...
spoke to her briefly on messenger....we had out first spat in a while....she told me i had dissapointed her a lot and we fought a lot...she refused to get into it..this is her friends talking, one of...
Im not going to message her or anything...ill wait and c if she eventually responds or reaches out...part of me thinks im setting myself up for failure..dont know how much more of this i can take...
Traveling across the world to be with someone you love and you think loves you and then getting your heart battered isnt a great feeling. I cant believe this happened. after i brought her to my fam...
Your right....im defeated ...i cant take too much more of this...the hope that she will wake up one day and realize what shes done is fading fast...
How am i going to find out what it is...i think its the whole wanting to move back to greece, and wanting to be here and meet new people...she has at least 3 years before she moves back..if thats...
you know what im talking about...im sure you felt similar...its just so draining that im starting to lose hope...her dad said to me...u may have lost the battle but not the war...be patient...im...
shes is definitely going through something....no one knows what it is....her parents keep telling me to be patient...they are being super nice to her to try to make her feel more comfortable around...
hey boys, small update...so yesterday i told her i would drop the stuff that she conveniently forgot in my car in her mailbox. she insisted on meeting for coffee instead. I reluctantly agreed. We met...
Thanks, trying to take it one day at a time. going to wait for her to reach out...
Well, she cancelled at the last second, i was literally on my way to pick her up. She said she was tired and we were only going to hang out for a little anyway. I dont understand this girl. I guess...
thank you very much guys...
and friday, the day she wants to see me, is a month to the day of the breakup...
one of the hardest things is everyone around me is telling me to drop her like a bad habit..that she will do it again and shes dangerous if she can emotionally shut down like that and not care..i...
ok. thank you. i have made a lot of changes and i think she is beginning to notice them..thank you for walking me through this.....
I hope so. I want to ask her if shes been with anyone but i wont...she told me her ex found out we broke up and hes been hounding her...dont know why she told me that...she mentions thats shes making...
unspoken, have some updates... so i bumped into her folks the other day and they asked me to call her at home. they were saying that she hasnt left the house, is under a lot of stress, is very angry...
the person she has become is not the person she was before she left...I know for a fact her friends in Greece were trying to convince her to eventually go back and that she would find another...
well, I know she did love me very much....or so it seemed...when she picked me up from the airport 3 weeks ao she was jumping up and down she was so happy..then she said she started to see our...
I really hope so...I love that girl more than anything and she knows it...
ok, thank you for everything....
ok, once I said I couldn't be her friend, I could tell she got mad but she tried to play it off...shes like take care sweetheart...im struggling but I will not call her...after the last message I...
Trying to adjust back home..its becoming increasingly difficult...she messaged me yesterday and it began with small talk..i told her I missed her and she said "I, of course miss you too, you doing...
your right, thank you...
finally back home..saw her on the plane..initially she said a quick hello and kept walking but then i saw her looking around to see where i was...on the plane she came looking for me and was trying...
Ok, I'll keep you posted. Flying out wed, she's on the flight with me. Will try to b cordial. Any suggestions ?...
Honestly, I'm asking myself, if she is capable of switching off like that then did she ever truly love me or was I a means to an end. I can't understand how you can be madly in love one minute and...
Thank you...
I haven't given her a chance to miss me bc I've been trying to figure out what happened to her. We've been going back and forth since it happened. I mean, we've been away from each other but there...
I've been trying. But I'm here basically alone and all I can do is think. It'll b three weeks on we'd the day we fly back. During the relationship she appeared in love. The messages were obvious if...
I thought she was, apparently she came looking to focus negatively. She wasn't like that before. In other words, when she left the states, she was in a different, more mature mindset. She spends a...
I know my story is a little convoluted, if u have any questions ask away...
I would, I'm overseas still....
Having a similar issue. Any advice is appreciated. Met my gf 8 months ago. We fell in love, everything was great. She spends her summers in another country with her family. I have been under a...