I've been having bad stomach pains due to a lack of a bowel movement. I have a good one only once or twice a week. Until I see my doctor, are there food and drink I should and shouldn't have? Right...
@ Karen, some of the things are: quit job, collect my profit sharing, get a car, get healthier, eyes, teeth, pay all bills. I'm sure there are more things. I get overwhelmed, normal for me. Thanks....
@chartreux, hi, I've had blood work done, and a bunch of other tests. Results are good. Doctor wants me back to recheck some tests. Less pain since I cut down on beer drinking. Besides health...
@peter A, about the only thing I do has a hobby is to play poker for fun on the tv. I mainly do it to kill time. I just lost interest in many things. I have no drive, ambitions. Can't focus on...
@ tim. When I was a kid I use to get a b 12 shot every week. I have changed my diet a bit. Eating more cereal, less bread and butter. I also cut down on beer. Never a big drinker, just 3_ 4 a day,...
@chartreux, sorry about your mother, it must be hard. I just lost a cousin to that ailment. I have thought about train traveling, it's a possibility. I try not to give, but it's so hard at times,...
Thank you....
For the first time in awhile I've been inspired. Thinking about leaving my job, taking my profit sharing and travel. I want to get in a car and see the country again. Not now, maybe in a year. So...
Thanks, I haven't made a big decision in a long time....
@bnot, yes one of my problems is reaching out, I rarely ask for help. The few times I went to a therapist was not productive. Trouble expressing my feelings. I will try again, thanks....
@tim, I used to enjoy bowling, but haven't done that in years. Being without a car hurts. I am thinking of leaving my job, buying a car and travel the country....
@tim. I tried anti-depression meds, didn't seem to work. Even days when I am feeling good, I don't do anything positive, it's always wait for tomorrow. The more time I waste the more depressed I get....
@bnot, thanks for the links, I'll check them out. I live in Newark, New Jersey. I guess my biggest problem is hopelessness, I feel my life is over with, being 61, no plans, nothing motivates me, like...
@pitmom, I've had a bunch of tests recently, some were ok, others are unclear. I put off the test for my hip for awhile. Need to catch up on my medical bills first. So it's physical and mental how I...
@joan, thanks for sharing. I know I need to push myself, but I don't, and just give up....
@tim, you asked who would more? Well I would. I want to really live, experience, explore, be happy, but this depression, hopelessness, is weighing me down. I appreciate your comments....
@pitmom, I appreciate the advice, but house plants, pets won't help much. I do have a cat. More the most part I have trouble getting off my recliner. My apartment is a mess, and I don't care. I'm...
@karen, it's more than being lonely, I seem to lose all interest in everything. Nothing excites me, just dead inside. Thank you for your reply....
@bnot, thanks. I think therapy is my answer, but not much luck when I went years ago....
@chartreux, I thank you for your reply. I find it hard to push myself to do anything. I pay my bills, food shop, work. Beyond that, nothing. I am just giving up....
@BlueMoon, hi. I adopted a cat about a year ago. She showed up at my job and I took her home. She has helped, but I think I need professional help. Thanks for listening....
I really don't know what is the point of going on. I'm 61 years old, my family I rarely see or talk to, no friends really. Not the type that are there when you need them, or just hang out with. I...
@inspiredby3, Thank you. I have no faith in doctors. I asked my doctor what food should I avoid, since I have stomach problems, his answer was none....
@pitmom, thanks, I appreciate it. The test I've taken show nothing wrong. I still have a few to go. Sometimes I feel it's just age creeping up on me, hip, legs. No I don't live in south Jersey. Would...
@Sunny 13, thanks for the info. There is a lot to read, learn. Interesting what I read so far....
Not only am I in pain everyday, but the pains seems to move. From the stomach to my back, sides, legs. Pain pills only go so far. What's worst is the doctors haven't found anything wrong, still need...
@myself, thanks. I hate to waste time, but do it all the time. I fight everyday with myself....
@pitmom, So far all test results have been good. I have a big test next week. What is worst is that I have no motivation, drive, spirit,ect. I lost interest in things I use to enjoy. I have trouble...
Thanks, but too far for me. I'll try to find a local group....
@ Trina, thanks for responding. A support group just might help, since I don't like to bother family or friends. I'll look for one in my area. You are right, I need to force myself and not just quit....
Thanks Karen, but I reached the point of not seeing any hope. I'm just going through the motions. Thanks again....
Right now I have lost faith in myself, my future. I've been depressed on and off for years, now going through physical problems. Doctor after doctor, test after test. It's weighing me down. I left my...