Hi, I made my decision painfully but I had an ab last Monday. The father turned his back on me and so I had to make the decision that was right for me. I was drowning without the support of him. My...
Hi Iv'e talked about my problem here recently. So I am pregnant and the father is not supporive at ALL. We have recently talked and he is relieved I told him I would not keep the baby. He has not...
Well I told the father that I was pregnant and it did NOT go well. He basically said he did not want it. Everything was wrong about it for him. The next day I had a mini breakdown or major depending...
I have been throuthg hell and back in my life. Maybe others may not agree but they're not in my shoes. My parents divorced when I was only 3 and it wasn't pretty. I grew up in a lonely world where I...
Well you are the first person I am telling this to. I am pregnant. I am terrified now to tell this guy because of his ambivolence torwards me. I am happy. I will not terminate another life. I had a...
I sincerely appreciate all of your kind words and advice. I really needed someone to talk to and I am so thankful you replied so quickly. You must talk to many and I guess why would you lie to me,...
In regards to telling him how I feel, I put all of the cards on the table, so to speak. Now he feels confused but I get hints that he still cares for me. A bunch of friends went out last week to a...
Well I did see the crisis counselor a few times but she said that because of ethical reasons I had to tellmy other therapist I was seeing her too. The crisis counselors' opinion that ti collaborate...
So where does this leave me now? I hear what you are saying but people aren't perfect. Are you hinting that he isn't the most balanced person. I guess the thingis he knows me better than anybody....
Hi again, I haven't written in a while but I feel pretty bad. The last time we spoke I talked about this guy I thought I liked but I looked at his faults and problems dismissing the important gifts...
I think you hit the nail on the head that I feel even worse because I shared so much with him. So I feel myself holding on for that reason. This just makes me so sad since I have an EXTREMELY...
Elisha, I appreciate the advice you have given me. I met with a crisis counselor for the first time last Monday. I wanted to cancel the appt becasue of conflict with my other therapist but I went...
I'm back and I had some disappointing news that my counselor was sick and cancelled our appt.yesterday. I took your advice and contacted a crisis center and they called me back today and got some...
I was hospitalised last year for 2 weeks then they referred me to women's outpatient program. They told me I had to qualify because it was designed for people who suffered with depression for a long...
Elisha, I was hoping you would reply. I had a bad day again today. Well I should say that it took everything in me to go to wrok. I wanted to call off but I new I would get crap for calling off. I do...
Elisha, Thank you for replying so quickly because I need support so much. I am taking Lexapro right now and my doctor increased the dose due to my increase in symptoms. I feel so much pressure on me...
/community/emoticons/redface.gif Hi I'm new to forums but I am at my emotional end. I have been struggling with depression for many years (I am 35) and I feel like I can't help myself to improve. I...