Hi Everyone Well you are so right about meeting new men who are healthy...I think I found someone who does not lie and does deal with medical issues. It has been fun casually dating as opposed to...
Do not feel alone Whathappened. I consider myself well educated, attractive and rational...yet I did not see bf's BP until after two months of dating...he did not reveal. For someone without a...
Thank you both for your kindness and support. When he gets like this I never know what reaction I will get. One day rational and the next day off the chain. I will heed your advice and let sleeping...
/community/emoticons/mad.gif Well, after a year of dating depressed BF...we have called it quits. He refused counseling and to stay on meds. It has been a bad break up. BF has sent many nastograms...
Hi Anubis, My bf is contemplating right now what bf has already done. He has had episodic depression his own adult life. We have up and down for a year. he is seriously thinking of moving out of...
WWC I am having serious doubts about my relationship. What I don't understand about BF is work. I have read that depressed men focus on work and that is BF. He will put everything aside for work....
WWC, I am telling you never know what life will throw you...tonight BF called me and told me he may be moving for work-a promotion!!! Right now we are 45 minutes away...he would be going about four...
WCC Thanks for all your support. I just keep asking questions and looking for answers. It sounds slightly neurotic but even after a day at work it would be nice to talk to him and put my burdens...
/community/emoticons/tongue.gif Well after two weeks of not communicating with anyone other than co-workers BF called and said let's get together. I discussed all the issues this website has brought...
MM I understand. My Bf has depression and if you look at some of my postings I am in very much the same position except not married. He abruptly ask me to not go on a trip to Labor Day the day were...
/community/emoticons/yeah.gif Shy, I think you are right. He said over the phone about a week ago. He was "...not that good, you could do better...I am not exactly a winner..." I thought he was...
Darren Disscetion of the relationship is not what it is all about. I need to feel the pain, heal and move on. People who do not deal with this disease do not get it. Thanks for listening. Still in...
Thank you Darren and Shy for your support:). Can you answer one question for me...is normal when cycling down to be able disassociate so quickly out of a relationship. One day we were engaged and...
Shy and Kit Thank you for solid advice. I do love him. He says he loves me. I am giving him distance, not phoning nor seeing just emailing plans to terminate relationship-getting his stuff back to...
I know what you mean my BF cancelled plans for a B and B the day before and he is not willing to meet me halfway. I find a like situation difficult...I know your frustration!!! Hang in there...
about once every three months, BF cycles downward and isolates self. Am willing to be patient yet find the whole black and while situation hard to emotionally handle. Even little things like having...
Thanks Mary. There maybe light at the end of the tunnel. I will weigh all the options and consider heavily what you have given me to think about . God bless. Ann...
Involved with clinically depressed man. He is under treatment. Yet, I he has had a suicide attempt one year ago. It was a very serious attempt. I care deeply for this man. He was in-patient then...
Please try and stand by him if you can. My boyfriend is in treatment but still I find the ups and downs difficult after a year. Friends and family say I should re-evaluate staying in this...
Thank you for information. My boyfriend is 50 and I am 43. I have never dealt with clinical depression, yet he has had episodic clinical depression since young adulthood. Both of us went through...
I am involved with a wonderful man who is dealing with depression. I am not sure how to deal with it. Any advice?...