Naan, Believe me, I don't want to lose her because I know how good we had it. I just wish she could see it. She is the one that continues to contemplate separating but then gets scared and changes...
I've finally come to the realization that no matter how much I try to comfort and love my wife, that alone is not going to change her feelings and make things better. I wish I was something I could...
Has anyone ever tried Oxytocin to help depression? They are doing studies on it now but nothing is proven yet. It can be bought online in the form of a nasal spray. Anyone have any info on this?...
Well its safe to say I've been drinking a good deal of alcohol lately. Nothing major, just a couple drinks some nights to take the edge off. I think I'm to the point where I'm going to tell her that...
Well she just texted saying I could come home after work if I want. She will be there until 8:00 when she has to head to work. I've not responded yet but i know in the end i will end up going over...
I don't want a divorce. I would do anything it takes to keep her. I don't believe in divorce unless somebody cheats. But I have learned that no matter what I do, love is not enough to get her to snap...
Like I said earlier, I took all the photos of us off the walls and even took a lot of them out of the frames. Prior to that when were dividing everything up, we went through everything in the...
Sometimes I get the feeling she just wants to fight. After we talked about the divorce we both cried for a bit then she said some thing to try and hurt me. Then had a few drinks and she went to bed....
Today she said we should get a divorce. So we sat down and divided everything up. She won't get help and I can't continue going thru this with no effort on her part. I have done everything I can but...
I do want to be around her as much as i can. but over the past month or so I have spent more time at my parents than at home. So I dont think I could be suffocating her by any means. If anything, i...
I spoke with her briefly tonight before I headed out to hag out with a friend. I told her please don't shut me out. That is the worst thing you could do right now. I said I don't want you to feel...
All of this started happening when she had switched birth control 3 times and began taking her antidepressants, then quit taking them without consulting a doctor. She then got a different kind from...
Sometimes I can't help but think that if she didn't get that job we wouldn't be where we are... but who knows. I did find out that she was deleting some texts from a guy at work... when i confronted...
Thanks Jasmine. You do seem like you are much more knowledgeable and mature than a normal 19 year old. I would love to do all the things you are talking about, I have tried several of them, but it...
We have a yorkie that means the world to her. After one of the times we decided to call it quits, I told her I would be back Saturday to move my stuff out. Well two days later she is asking if I...
I have no problem staying at home in a different bedroom. I did that last week. But she started feeling bad again at the end of the week and saying she doesn't want to continue this, so after work...
I wish i could bribe her with something to go talk to someone. I forgot to mention earlier she has switched birth control 3 times in the last 6 months, so that cant be good for her hormones i wouldnt...
Thundercould, Did you try to push your husband away during that time? I wish that she wouldn't push me away because I really do want to help her, but it seems like she wants nothing to do with me....
Thanks. The lack of sex is now what hurts the most. What hurts the most is the complete lack of affection. I came back home last weekend because things were a little bit better. The happiest i had...
Since December, my wife has been a different person. We had such a great marriage (4.5 years) and now everything is falling apart. She has gone through brief periods in the past, only a few days at a...