Boy Emma, that's a tough one....I know you hate being caught between things like this. One one hand you can be tough on him like them, but what if he gets more depressed and gives up. And on the...
Hang in there Emma. I know he's worth it to you, or you wouldn't still be there! You are a strong woman and have proven that thus far. Take care of yourself and know that I will pray for him and for...
Angie, Oh yes, the anger was definitely part of our life, but it was several years a go....I think we went through about 3 years of it before I basically gave up. The bottle always won the fights, as...
Krista, I too know how you feel. It's empy and strange without them. My grandson called him Pap Paw, he's only 2......He would always want to know where he was and I said sleeping. He would say, oh...
It's funny how everyone reacts differently to medications. My husband was on Librium 25 mg, Ambien 10 mg, and melatonin (5 pills) I think they are 5 mg each (can't remember) and it took all that to...
Wow, HB, It's a wonder he is working at all. My husband passed away just a few weeks a go and had all of the symptoms you describe. Without seeing a Doctor, there's really no way to tell exactly...
There is actually a lot to do once they've moved on....more than I realized. Most of my "time" as been spent just getting things in order, giving some things away to special people, filing paperwork,...
Emma, I too am sorry....I know he has been doing so good. And I agree that they do lie. My husband would lie more about how much he drank more than anything else. And he always went back to drinking...
I'm doing ok. I just feel strange...don't really know how to describe it...I've had good and bad days and I know there's more to come, but I try to stay positive and remember that it turned out the...
Natasha, I am so sorry for you and your kids....I know this is hard on you and you are doing the right thing by making your kids your priority. I hope you can hang in there til Sunday! I'll be...
Elle, I'm praying for you today! If you can do nothing else, tell him you love him ever chance you get just in case something does happen. Prayers going up for his recovery and for your strength!!...
It's Sunday morning and my girls and I are getting ready for church. I just wanted to say that I am sending up prayers this morning not only for my Louis, but for Krista's Ben, Natty and Marks Anna,...
Elle, I too am praying for you and your husband. I hope he will continue to improve so he can get that transplant! You're in my thoughts and prayers today!...
Natty, I'm so sorry! But you were such a great daughter in law and you took such good care of her. That will give you and Mark both a lot of comfort in the upcoming months...Take care of yourself and...
Krista, I'm so sorry.......I know how hard it must be for you especially with a little one like you have at home. I will say a prayer for you and your family! Marilyn...
Thank you All! The visitation is today from 5-7 and the funeral tomorrow at 2:00pm. I just want to get through the next couple of days then I can have a little time to myself. All I can say to those...
My husband (Louis)passed away yesterday at 4:10 pm. He died at home with hospice and about 50 of our friends and family by his side. When services are over and I get some quiet time I will log on and...
Yea Connie, we already have that as well as the hospital bed, wheelchair and walker. They also brought in the O2 and the suction machine. His mind is still sharp but at the same time he seems out of...
Hi All! Hope all of you are having a good week. I'm ok, just taking it one day at a time. Hospice nurse comes every Wed. She said yesterday he was about the same as last week so no real big news. His...
I'm sorry too Steph! I can't imagine how you feel but I know it has to be heart breaking for you. Please know that we all feel for you and you will stay in my prayers! Allow yourself time to heal and...
Hi Crunchman, I too am a caregiver for my husband who has ESLD from alcoholic cirrhosis. It's hard to tell what's causing your edema until you go to the Doctor and get blood work done. That's the...
Oh, and by the way, everybody he sees lately, he thanks them over and over....It's almost eerie because everything I've read says that's what they do when they know they're dying....My son-in-law...
Krista, I hate it you are going through this too. That's why it is so good that we can come here and post. Our families are good to help, and true friends are happy to listen, but no one but us is...
Natalie, I too am glad Hospice is there for you. And you are right, it is a relief to know they are coming and that they are available if we need them for anything. I was surprised at how much stress...
Sandia, Wow, has it already been a year and a half? It doesn't seem possible! Yes, you are right, it is hard, but I'm doing everything I can no matter how tired I get to make sure I'm making these...
Jess, I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I know that had to be awful for you, but it sure does sound like you took good care of you mom. And I know your Dad loves you for it because he certainly...
Thanks for the advice Connie. She is coming tomorrow so I will bring this up. I appreciate your concern and will continue to take care of me too! I hope you are doing ok as well! I think about you,...
Mandy (Sister3), I'm so sorry you're going through this too. And you're right, it's hard to watch when you know you can't stop them. All I can really tell you is that my husband was stable for a good...
Yes you are right, people are extremely judgemental. And if had thought that my husband might have quit, I might have kept it a little more private, but eventually would have shared. But, when I saw...
Emma, I am more than happy to share because that's what i was always hoping others would share. I handle it best by being open and talking about it with family, friends, and co-workers. They know all...
Thank you both! I do love him and I meant every word of my vows when I took them, so I'm in it for the long haul...And yes Mary, I am trying to say everything I need to say now and make every minute...
For those of you that already know my story, here's an update....for those of you that do not, here's a brief summary. My husband has end stage liver failure due to alcoholic cirrhosis. Right or...
Blonde, Oh my gosh, you really are living a nightmare! And no, you should not feel guilty for anything. You didn't do anything wrong other than love the guy. You put your trust and love and your...
I agree with Michael. Some folks who are normally good spellers might not be feeling well, or , just might not care that particular day if their grammer or spelling is correct. Now I do agree that...
Krista, I'm sorry too that you are where you are.....I think that not knowing what to do is sometimes the hardest part of dealing with this disease. I'm sure you'll make the right decision for you...
Emma, A lady that I work with has back problems as well. She says when it flares up, she has one of those "noodles" (the long cylinder styrofoam things you use to swim with as a floatie). She cut it...
So glad to hear that Woody! It sounds like you're on the right road to recovery now....And you're exactly right, it's all about your attitude toward life in general. Keep up the good work and maybe...
Sleep tight and I hope you feel better when you wake up! We're all thinking about you and hoping you feel better soon!! /community/emoticons/wink.gif ...
Thanks Katie! I think we all feel the same way about it as well. It's been nice since day one for me to be able to come here and get straight answers..Like you, I hate googling things because you get...
Hi Worried Girl, I'm sorry you're feeling sad. Emma is right.....when you feel like you are at the bottom and everything is going wrong, remember there is only one way out, and that is up. Try to...
Hi SBHep 63 and welcome to the forum, There are many people here who can help you with your questions and have been where you are now. I am not one of the experts, but a caregiver for my husband who...
No it's not....You have to be a strong person to handle it. Many times I have my time when he's sleeping. Because when he's awake, you're right, there's always something that needs to be done. If I...
Hi Annie and welcome! I too am a caregiver for my husband who has ESLD due to alcohol and he still drinks. Being a caregiver is tough on you in more ways than one. Financially, emotionally, and...
Kim, I'm glad she returned safely! She's lucky to have you for a daughter to see after her. I hope all goes well and I wish you the best!...
Good Luck Connie! All our thoughts and prayers will be with you!...
Welcome back Emma! Glad you got to get away.....But you were missed here! Hope everyone is having a goodweek!...
Sandia, I'm glad things are better for you. It does seem like God always provides just when you think you have nothing left in you doesn't it? So glad your daughter is with you too. Family means...
Welcome Hockeymom! I'm a caregiver for my husband with end stage liver disease from alcohol. I don't know anything about your disease either, but I just wanted to say hi and hope maybe someone out...
Congratulations Natalie! I'm glad you finally got hitched! :) And I'm glad too that the MIL didn't get a chance to ruin it for you. The others are right, she won't be around for ever so you stick to...
Steph, I'm so sorry to hear that....I know it is hard on you especially considering the circumstances...My thoughts and prayers are with you...............