Thank you for your words. They have helped me to get my thoughts in order. I must say it was a mayor thing for me but thank goodness I am better now and my mind has much more clarity. Thank you for...
Thank you Karen! It's just when I saw him again several weeks ago, I revived part of the memories that I had about that time of my life. It was awkward, I felt that I still cared. I think I might...
In my experience, when I don't take my thyroid meds I start to feel tired very easily. Sleepy the whole day. I also have certain coarseness in my voice, but I 'm still not sure if it's related to my...
It's been a long time since I posted! A lot has also gone by. Lots of travel and work :-) I also saw my ex coincidentally, some weeks ago, we were in line for an event in his country, he was a few...
You are strong enough to write about these uncomfortable feelings. Hopefully you will overcome these, one day at a time. Take care of yourself as much as you can and be as strong as possible....
"Ideally, I'd like to know where I stand, ie have we got a future and is there any hope? But I understand that asking a depressed person this may place pressure on them and push them away more. But...
This thread is a bit old but I think I will post here. I have been losing my voice in the last month. I had a flu and my voice did not come back. I started feeling lot's of dryness in my throat so I...
That inflamation in my throat is driving me crazy! It hurts, it gets kind of dry and it hurts more. And I can say a word....I can barely whisper. So annoying, I can't even attend phone calls....
Yeah me too. I got diagnosed with GERD today. I feel short of breath but I hardly feel gastritis sympthoms. But I have lost my voice completely during the last month. I also had an exam with a a...
I am wondering if I have some kind of reflux. I had a flu in the beginning of december and it seems that I never recovered. During mid december I had a bit of a heartburn and I took a pair of pills...
I do think that "rituals" before going to bed are good to go to sleep in certain schedule. I like having some warm drink before going to bed, warming the bed with my cat and maybe watching some...
I have been coping pretty well sewing like nuts, it´s creative outlet for me and during Xmas I managed to sell a lot of stuff. My office job has been pretty demanding in the last weeks and with other...
I had never though in the idea of journaling before :idea: I still don't feel that strong enough yet, but I might try it. I am calming down, some days I feel calm, other days I feel thoughtful and...
It's being hard, but I think I have been reacting well. Thankfully I have lots of things to occupy my mind. I do have this weird and yucky sense of loss. I am waiting for it to go away, because I...
Hello there Try to take care of yourself, you have to give YOU the importance that you deserve. Give yourself time to grieve through this process, it's terribly awful because it's a loss, but the...
Sewing is really nice! I sew since I was very young and it's something that I enjoy, I even have a little on-line shop for my stuff so that keeps me busy in my free time. I don't know how to crochet...
Thank you so much Karen. That's what I'm trying to convince myself. I don't want to tolerate a lousy and intransigent attitude from his part (well from nobody really). That's the word: protection. I...
Well he sent in an email today, saying that he did not expect that I would cut contact with him. That he did not expect that kind of attitude from me...I suppose that he is trying to make me feel...
Well in the past days I have cut all posible contact with him, thank goodness he has not tried to contact me either. I suppose this is necesary for me, I don't want to fight or discuss. I feel...
Thanks for your words and your attention. I really needed this advice. And now things seem pretty official. He is in love with another person, and he did not give a piece of garbage about how I would...
Thank you for your answers Getting By and BnotAfraid. It 's a relief and almost liberating to write here and to receive your posts. Of course I am hurt with this. Even more when he has not had the...
I wonder if that can happen too. The new lady is very far away, more than 7000 km that is. But it could be a way of repeating the cycle, I was not his first long distance relationship. Before I came...
Oh I just have to include a new thing in this long and winding situation. :rolleyes: He has a new lady in his life. Another long distance relationship it seems and the new person lives really far...
What a tough situation...please keep going to the doctor, you must be so tired but medical advice and therapy is so important. Hang on in there, you are doing things in the right direction. My best...
Yes of course, that is totally true. He has to help himself and make a big introspection. He has to choose and make a decision. I don't feel guilty thank goodness. Life has these big and awful...
I don't think so. At least not right now. He does not leave his flat, he didn't even visit his sick dad in the hospital. And that was a bit more than a year ago. Tough stuff....
Thank you so much for your messages. I am very grateful for them and for this supportive community. In life sometimes bad things happen all at once. I just had news that his best friend passed away....
In first place, thank you for reading and answering. It's kind of a relief, because I can't seem to be able to talk about this problem with anyone in this moment. And it is also important to have an...
That's true. I cared my aunt that had dialysis for 4 years. When she ate bananas or fish, there was some kind of imbalance in some kind of element in her blood and she used to be very itchy. All over...
Hello to all I am new in this forum, but I'm pleased to know that it has advice for many health topics. I would like to get some opinions about the things you might do with a man that refuses or is...