Have you gone for the biofeedback bladder therapy? Really helped me with cutting down the incontinence to minimal leakage and only in stress situations, coughing, sneezing, bending....
I can only speak from my experience, and I didn't know much more than to go with my own personal thoughts since it was my body. I had enlarged prostate, lots of cancer on one side and no signs of...
Should have catheter for a week, then will need incontinence supplies. I spent one day in hospital after surgery and walked out of the hospital. Pain was minimal to no existent except when coughing...
Also having physical therapy with bio feedback is a must. It gives you a visual output that shows if you are doing Kegels properly. I had therapy for several sessions and I am very close to total...
I had the same problem after catheter removal. Ended up in ER and found out I had bad bladder wall infection. Took antibiotics by IV for 4 days and once it cleared up, no more spasms....
If I may add a suggestion. I had the same surgery and am now in bio feedback rehab. My PT said doctors should have the physical therapy and rehab exercises BEFORE surgery and I wish I had known that....
After my robotic prostate removal and after 7 days my catheter was removed. I healed well from the actual surgery, but for 9 days I was in intense pain at night when I tried to lie flat on my back....